MatureDJ
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Cambodia bans old foreign farts from marrying citizens!
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
****ers are hogging all the good breast milk :box:
HoneyHitter
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Lol, I don't think you get it. Those "old farts" are looking for easy, humble, young puzzy. Once that same puzzy hits American soil unmarried, the humble and easiness goes down the drain real quick!bmxcetera said:
There's a huge difference between a wealthy old fart and a poor old fart. Sometimes the difference is only a matter of location.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
hope is a dangerous thing...men may actually wake up and act on itevan12 said:
Imagine all the men paying alimony and child support just left the country for greener
pasturesall in one year..
gone!
No more taxes no more child support payouts nothing.....
where would all these divorced women get their money to go shopping?
the economy would collapse :crackup:
HoneyHitter
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Lol, been living here since my late teens dude.bmxcetera said:
And you're still making dumbas$ blanket statements thinking that they also apply to southeastern Asians migrating into western society. Did you catch on to the fact that it referenced the rough pasts that they experienced as a whole in Cambodia and Vietnam? I've never had one of these SE Asian women treat me with disrespect here, in fact they are some of the friendliest individuals I've dealt with, ever. Having a piss-poor command of the English language, wearing rags to high school/community college and still living in squalid conditions in the U.S. barely made them seem like wannabe Prima Donnas to me...and I've lived here far longer than fifteen years, in four major U.S. cities and have traveled to half the states and counting. Not to mention I've grown up in a family that came to this country from SE Asia. For fvck's sake, the Hmong people that migrated to NC after the Vietnam Conflict never bothered learning English and shafted their own potential growth as a result.HoneyHitter said:
It's not as if some 50-year-old 400 lb. version of Burroughs is going overseas and plucking a girl from Stockholm. It's places like Phnom Penh, Chiang Mai and Saigon the article is referencing. The main point of the article is that the Cambodian gov't (and soon Vietnam) is putting restrictions on American men marrying their women so as to combat HUMAN TRAFFICKING. That's a very petty restriction and I agree with the OP. In fact, they would be better off placing sanctions on The Netherlands with all the sex-slaves they sell you all in Amsterdam :moon:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Down Low,
"Every Cambodian woman -- or her US-born daughter -- I ever met in the US was a wh0re with a side job as a wife, masseuse, nail polisher, or waitress."Maybe I could turn a blind eye to that,but what I can't forgive is a complete lack of any conversation,or interest in anything but themselves,their beauty,their telephone and shopping!
"Every Cambodian woman -- or her US-born daughter -- I ever met in the US was a wh0re with a side job as a wife, masseuse, nail polisher, or waitress."Maybe I could turn a blind eye to that,but what I can't forgive is a complete lack of any conversation,or interest in anything but themselves,their beauty,their telephone and shopping!