cedd
Don Juan
call her if you expect to meet her. (ie fu*k her)
If youre not much interested in, dont call her and do what you have to do.
as Fd' said...that's too much brainstorming (and presurizing yourself) for a HYPOTHETIC lay
cheers
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Calling women you meet online
- Thread starter armstrong
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If youre not much interested in, dont call her and do what you have to do.
as Fd' said...that's too much brainstorming (and presurizing yourself) for a HYPOTHETIC lay
cheers
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When would you call? A day or two prior to when I'm leaving or the day I want to hook up?cedd said:call her if you expect to meet her. (ie fu*k her)
If youre not much interested in, dont call her and do what you have to do.
as Fd' said...that's too much brainstorming (and presurizing yourself) for a HYPOTHETIC lay
cheers
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
But he has to do it at just the right time, a second or two off and it could be the fate of the entire world if not the universe!!! :nervous:armadon said:Jesus ****ing christ just call the damn chick
cedd
Don Juan
Call her when youre done with your work.When would you call? A day or two prior to when I'm leaving or the day I want to hook up?
Say something like "I'm downtown, in a wonderful lounge bar, would you like to join me ?"
If she's ok to meet you, great! Game her.
If she doesnt want to, no regret. Have a drink, talk to people and get a good night of sleep at your hotel.
cheers
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Well aren't you just a little ray of sunshine!armadon said:Jesus ****ing christ just call the damn chick
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Are you projecting awkwardness?armstrong said:Does anyone have any suggestions for calling a woman for the first time who you've been chatting with online? I've done it a few times and they can be pretty awkward because there's no real rapport you have with the person, outside of chatting online.
Talk to her like you would talk to your kid sister's goofy friends.