cedd
Don Juan
call her if you expect to meet her. (ie fu*k her)
If youre not much interested in, dont call her and do what you have to do.
as Fd' said...that's too much brainstorming (and presurizing yourself) for a HYPOTHETIC lay
cheers
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Calling women you meet online
- Thread starter armstrong
- Start date
If youre not much interested in, dont call her and do what you have to do.
as Fd' said...that's too much brainstorming (and presurizing yourself) for a HYPOTHETIC lay
cheers
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
When would you call? A day or two prior to when I'm leaving or the day I want to hook up?cedd said:call her if you expect to meet her. (ie fu*k her)
If youre not much interested in, dont call her and do what you have to do.
as Fd' said...that's too much brainstorming (and presurizing yourself) for a HYPOTHETIC lay
cheers
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
But he has to do it at just the right time, a second or two off and it could be the fate of the entire world if not the universe!!! :nervous:armadon said:Jesus ****ing christ just call the damn chick
cedd
Don Juan
Call her when youre done with your work.When would you call? A day or two prior to when I'm leaving or the day I want to hook up?
Say something like "I'm downtown, in a wonderful lounge bar, would you like to join me ?"
If she's ok to meet you, great! Game her.
If she doesnt want to, no regret. Have a drink, talk to people and get a good night of sleep at your hotel.
cheers
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Well aren't you just a little ray of sunshine!armadon said:Jesus ****ing christ just call the damn chick
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Are you projecting awkwardness?armstrong said:Does anyone have any suggestions for calling a woman for the first time who you've been chatting with online? I've done it a few times and they can be pretty awkward because there's no real rapport you have with the person, outside of chatting online.
Talk to her like you would talk to your kid sister's goofy friends.