cedd
Don Juan
call her if you expect to meet her. (ie fu*k her)
If youre not much interested in, dont call her and do what you have to do.
as Fd' said...that's too much brainstorming (and presurizing yourself) for a HYPOTHETIC lay
cheers
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Calling women you meet online
- Thread starter armstrong
- Start date
If youre not much interested in, dont call her and do what you have to do.
as Fd' said...that's too much brainstorming (and presurizing yourself) for a HYPOTHETIC lay
cheers
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
When would you call? A day or two prior to when I'm leaving or the day I want to hook up?cedd said:call her if you expect to meet her. (ie fu*k her)
If youre not much interested in, dont call her and do what you have to do.
as Fd' said...that's too much brainstorming (and presurizing yourself) for a HYPOTHETIC lay
cheers
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
But he has to do it at just the right time, a second or two off and it could be the fate of the entire world if not the universe!!! :nervous:armadon said:Jesus ****ing christ just call the damn chick
cedd
Don Juan
Call her when youre done with your work.When would you call? A day or two prior to when I'm leaving or the day I want to hook up?
Say something like "I'm downtown, in a wonderful lounge bar, would you like to join me ?"
If she's ok to meet you, great! Game her.
If she doesnt want to, no regret. Have a drink, talk to people and get a good night of sleep at your hotel.
cheers
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Well aren't you just a little ray of sunshine!armadon said:Jesus ****ing christ just call the damn chick
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Are you projecting awkwardness?armstrong said:Does anyone have any suggestions for calling a woman for the first time who you've been chatting with online? I've done it a few times and they can be pretty awkward because there's no real rapport you have with the person, outside of chatting online.
Talk to her like you would talk to your kid sister's goofy friends.