cedd
Don Juan
call her if you expect to meet her. (ie fu*k her)
If youre not much interested in, dont call her and do what you have to do.
as Fd' said...that's too much brainstorming (and presurizing yourself) for a HYPOTHETIC lay
cheers
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Calling women you meet online
- Thread starter armstrong
- Start date
If youre not much interested in, dont call her and do what you have to do.
as Fd' said...that's too much brainstorming (and presurizing yourself) for a HYPOTHETIC lay
cheers
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When would you call? A day or two prior to when I'm leaving or the day I want to hook up?cedd said:call her if you expect to meet her. (ie fu*k her)
If youre not much interested in, dont call her and do what you have to do.
as Fd' said...that's too much brainstorming (and presurizing yourself) for a HYPOTHETIC lay
cheers
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
But he has to do it at just the right time, a second or two off and it could be the fate of the entire world if not the universe!!! :nervous:armadon said:Jesus ****ing christ just call the damn chick
cedd
Don Juan
Call her when youre done with your work.When would you call? A day or two prior to when I'm leaving or the day I want to hook up?
Say something like "I'm downtown, in a wonderful lounge bar, would you like to join me ?"
If she's ok to meet you, great! Game her.
If she doesnt want to, no regret. Have a drink, talk to people and get a good night of sleep at your hotel.
cheers
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Well aren't you just a little ray of sunshine!armadon said:Jesus ****ing christ just call the damn chick
squirrels
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Are you projecting awkwardness?armstrong said:Does anyone have any suggestions for calling a woman for the first time who you've been chatting with online? I've done it a few times and they can be pretty awkward because there's no real rapport you have with the person, outside of chatting online.
Talk to her like you would talk to your kid sister's goofy friends.