Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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C+F - I've met my match

Monkey

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I've always used C+F with pretty good success, its part of who I am, but recently I've been chatting to a girl who fires it right back at me with a confident knowing wink.

While I'm talking to her you can almost feel her mind working to fire something equally daft back immediately. I'm managing to keep it on her level, but only just as shes REALLY good.

So how would you guys respond? tone it down, just keep at it or elevate the C+F to extreme levels in an effort to 'best' her?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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JLance

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I would say keep it where it's going and escalate as necessary. You should have a nice vibe going with this girl and it might turn into sexual tension. Don't forget KINO escalation which is one of the most important things to do.

Jay Lance
 

Snow Plowman

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JLance said:
I would say keep it where it's going and escalate as necessary. You should have a nice vibe going with this girl and it might turn into sexual tension. Don't forget KINO escalation which is one of the most important things to do.

Jay Lance
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Money right there

You found a chick with one of my favorite personality traits. Chick who has a sense of humor and is witty. You're best bet is to keep the C&F but at the same time don't over do it, because it will turn out to be ingeniune and just you trying to get her to shoot back.

KINO KINO KINO

It's these types of girls that like wrestling and play fighting, due to the sh!t talking back and forth.

Side Note - I'm jealous I've only met one girl who used alot of C&F and I loved hanging out with her. Too bad I told my friend I wasn't gaming her and told him to go far her...:cry:
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Snow Plowman said:
^^^
Money right there

You found a chick with one of my favorite personality traits. Chick who has a sense of humor and is witty. You're best bet is to keep the C&F but at the same time don't over do it, because it will turn out to be ingeniune and just you trying to get her to shoot back.

KINO KINO KINO

It's these types of girls that like wrestling and play fighting, due to the sh!t talking back and forth. ...
:up: Ride the wave... :rockon:
 

Charm

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Yea these types of girls can be a ton of fun to banter back and forth with and you'll develop eagle like agility after a spending time with her. Let her win the banters and then tease her about being needing to be the winner. Lock her into her own games and then release her. It can be fun and remember that kino :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Now, thats the best thing in flirting, when you meet someone on your level.
Damn, just keep escalting kino, keep being C+F and enjoy the whole time.
 
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