"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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C+F - I've met my match

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I've always used C+F with pretty good success, its part of who I am, but recently I've been chatting to a girl who fires it right back at me with a confident knowing wink.

While I'm talking to her you can almost feel her mind working to fire something equally daft back immediately. I'm managing to keep it on her level, but only just as shes REALLY good.

So how would you guys respond? tone it down, just keep at it or elevate the C+F to extreme levels in an effort to 'best' her?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I would say keep it where it's going and escalate as necessary. You should have a nice vibe going with this girl and it might turn into sexual tension. Don't forget KINO escalation which is one of the most important things to do.

Jay Lance
 
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JLance said:
I would say keep it where it's going and escalate as necessary. You should have a nice vibe going with this girl and it might turn into sexual tension. Don't forget KINO escalation which is one of the most important things to do.

Jay Lance
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Money right there

You found a chick with one of my favorite personality traits. Chick who has a sense of humor and is witty. You're best bet is to keep the C&F but at the same time don't over do it, because it will turn out to be ingeniune and just you trying to get her to shoot back.

KINO KINO KINO

It's these types of girls that like wrestling and play fighting, due to the sh!t talking back and forth.

Side Note - I'm jealous I've only met one girl who used alot of C&F and I loved hanging out with her. Too bad I told my friend I wasn't gaming her and told him to go far her...:cry:
 
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Snow Plowman said:
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Money right there

You found a chick with one of my favorite personality traits. Chick who has a sense of humor and is witty. You're best bet is to keep the C&F but at the same time don't over do it, because it will turn out to be ingeniune and just you trying to get her to shoot back.

KINO KINO KINO

It's these types of girls that like wrestling and play fighting, due to the sh!t talking back and forth. ...
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:up: Ride the wave... :rockon:
 
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Yea these types of girls can be a ton of fun to banter back and forth with and you'll develop eagle like agility after a spending time with her. Let her win the banters and then tease her about being needing to be the winner. Lock her into her own games and then release her. It can be fun and remember that kino :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Now, thats the best thing in flirting, when you meet someone on your level.
Damn, just keep escalting kino, keep being C+F and enjoy the whole time.
 
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