"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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C+F - I've met my match

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Monkey

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I've always used C+F with pretty good success, its part of who I am, but recently I've been chatting to a girl who fires it right back at me with a confident knowing wink.

While I'm talking to her you can almost feel her mind working to fire something equally daft back immediately. I'm managing to keep it on her level, but only just as shes REALLY good.

So how would you guys respond? tone it down, just keep at it or elevate the C+F to extreme levels in an effort to 'best' her?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I would say keep it where it's going and escalate as necessary. You should have a nice vibe going with this girl and it might turn into sexual tension. Don't forget KINO escalation which is one of the most important things to do.

Jay Lance
 
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JLance said:
I would say keep it where it's going and escalate as necessary. You should have a nice vibe going with this girl and it might turn into sexual tension. Don't forget KINO escalation which is one of the most important things to do.

Jay Lance
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Money right there

You found a chick with one of my favorite personality traits. Chick who has a sense of humor and is witty. You're best bet is to keep the C&F but at the same time don't over do it, because it will turn out to be ingeniune and just you trying to get her to shoot back.

KINO KINO KINO

It's these types of girls that like wrestling and play fighting, due to the sh!t talking back and forth.

Side Note - I'm jealous I've only met one girl who used alot of C&F and I loved hanging out with her. Too bad I told my friend I wasn't gaming her and told him to go far her...:cry:
 
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Snow Plowman said:
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Money right there

You found a chick with one of my favorite personality traits. Chick who has a sense of humor and is witty. You're best bet is to keep the C&F but at the same time don't over do it, because it will turn out to be ingeniune and just you trying to get her to shoot back.

KINO KINO KINO

It's these types of girls that like wrestling and play fighting, due to the sh!t talking back and forth. ...
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:up: Ride the wave... :rockon:
 
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Yea these types of girls can be a ton of fun to banter back and forth with and you'll develop eagle like agility after a spending time with her. Let her win the banters and then tease her about being needing to be the winner. Lock her into her own games and then release her. It can be fun and remember that kino :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Now, thats the best thing in flirting, when you meet someone on your level.
Damn, just keep escalting kino, keep being C+F and enjoy the whole time.
 
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