"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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C+F - I've met my match

Monkey

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I've always used C+F with pretty good success, its part of who I am, but recently I've been chatting to a girl who fires it right back at me with a confident knowing wink.

While I'm talking to her you can almost feel her mind working to fire something equally daft back immediately. I'm managing to keep it on her level, but only just as shes REALLY good.

So how would you guys respond? tone it down, just keep at it or elevate the C+F to extreme levels in an effort to 'best' her?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I would say keep it where it's going and escalate as necessary. You should have a nice vibe going with this girl and it might turn into sexual tension. Don't forget KINO escalation which is one of the most important things to do.

Jay Lance
 

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JLance said:
I would say keep it where it's going and escalate as necessary. You should have a nice vibe going with this girl and it might turn into sexual tension. Don't forget KINO escalation which is one of the most important things to do.

Jay Lance
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Money right there

You found a chick with one of my favorite personality traits. Chick who has a sense of humor and is witty. You're best bet is to keep the C&F but at the same time don't over do it, because it will turn out to be ingeniune and just you trying to get her to shoot back.

KINO KINO KINO

It's these types of girls that like wrestling and play fighting, due to the sh!t talking back and forth.

Side Note - I'm jealous I've only met one girl who used alot of C&F and I loved hanging out with her. Too bad I told my friend I wasn't gaming her and told him to go far her...:cry:
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Snow Plowman said:
^^^
Money right there

You found a chick with one of my favorite personality traits. Chick who has a sense of humor and is witty. You're best bet is to keep the C&F but at the same time don't over do it, because it will turn out to be ingeniune and just you trying to get her to shoot back.

KINO KINO KINO

It's these types of girls that like wrestling and play fighting, due to the sh!t talking back and forth. ...
:up: Ride the wave... :rockon:
 

Charm

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Yea these types of girls can be a ton of fun to banter back and forth with and you'll develop eagle like agility after a spending time with her. Let her win the banters and then tease her about being needing to be the winner. Lock her into her own games and then release her. It can be fun and remember that kino :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Now, thats the best thing in flirting, when you meet someone on your level.
Damn, just keep escalting kino, keep being C+F and enjoy the whole time.
 
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