"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

C&F answers needed :D! plz read!

DJsomeday

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 2, 2006
Messages
124
Reaction score
1
ok so i was in my classes and this hb 7 tells me:

Her: hey can i tell you something? but promise me you won't get mad.

Me: ok go on.

Her: You look like a teddy bear

Me: ok.. i'll take that as a compliment :D

****! that's the best i could come up with in 0.2 seconds lol! it caught me off guard but maybe i could have said "soooo since when do you love teddy bears (H)?" or i don't know, can anyone give me some good C&F answers for this situation?.

PS: i'm against canned C&F lines but nonetheless i think it would improve my game to see different responses to the same thing :p thanks!

PS2: Oh btw i don't really look like a teddy bear, who the **** knows :p my face is cute and i'm kinda overweight so that may be it :D i do like the fact that since this hb told me that know i can talk to her and her friends (hbs too) like i know them for a while *without any effort/me approaching/anythingxD*! meanwhile my other guy friends haven't talkted to them!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Infraction

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 30, 2007
Messages
131
Reaction score
0
Seriously people need to understand that Djing is a way of life and you can't be off guard.
my asnwer:"So you are attracted to teddy bears huh?"
 

ValleyDJing

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 15, 2006
Messages
1,527
Reaction score
14
Location
California
"You look like a teddy bear"

"As in you wanna squeeze, cuddle, and sleep with me?"
 

Plec07

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 3, 2006
Messages
383
Reaction score
7
Location
Berkshire, England
ValleyDJing said:
"As in you wanna squeeze, cuddle, and sleep with me?"
Lol nice reply. I'd go for "If your looking for an excuse to tell your parents when they find me in your bed your gonna have to do better than that."
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Infraction

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 30, 2007
Messages
131
Reaction score
0
Plec07 said:
Lol nice reply. I'd go for "If your looking for an excuse to tell your parents when they find me in your bed your gonna have to do better than that."
Great one.+1 rep.
 

Plec07

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 3, 2006
Messages
383
Reaction score
7
Location
Berkshire, England
Cheers Infraction, now I just need to keep practising till I can come up with stuff like that 100% of the time lol.
 
Top