"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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C&F answers needed :D! plz read!

DJsomeday

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ok so i was in my classes and this hb 7 tells me:

Her: hey can i tell you something? but promise me you won't get mad.

Me: ok go on.

Her: You look like a teddy bear

Me: ok.. i'll take that as a compliment :D

****! that's the best i could come up with in 0.2 seconds lol! it caught me off guard but maybe i could have said "soooo since when do you love teddy bears (H)?" or i don't know, can anyone give me some good C&F answers for this situation?.

PS: i'm against canned C&F lines but nonetheless i think it would improve my game to see different responses to the same thing :p thanks!

PS2: Oh btw i don't really look like a teddy bear, who the **** knows :p my face is cute and i'm kinda overweight so that may be it :D i do like the fact that since this hb told me that know i can talk to her and her friends (hbs too) like i know them for a while *without any effort/me approaching/anythingxD*! meanwhile my other guy friends haven't talkted to them!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Infraction

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Seriously people need to understand that Djing is a way of life and you can't be off guard.
my asnwer:"So you are attracted to teddy bears huh?"
 

ValleyDJing

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"You look like a teddy bear"

"As in you wanna squeeze, cuddle, and sleep with me?"
 

Plec07

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ValleyDJing said:
"As in you wanna squeeze, cuddle, and sleep with me?"
Lol nice reply. I'd go for "If your looking for an excuse to tell your parents when they find me in your bed your gonna have to do better than that."
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Infraction

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Plec07 said:
Lol nice reply. I'd go for "If your looking for an excuse to tell your parents when they find me in your bed your gonna have to do better than that."
Great one.+1 rep.
 

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Cheers Infraction, now I just need to keep practising till I can come up with stuff like that 100% of the time lol.
 
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