"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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C&F answers needed :D! plz read!

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ok so i was in my classes and this hb 7 tells me:

Her: hey can i tell you something? but promise me you won't get mad.

Me: ok go on.

Her: You look like a teddy bear

Me: ok.. i'll take that as a compliment :D

****! that's the best i could come up with in 0.2 seconds lol! it caught me off guard but maybe i could have said "soooo since when do you love teddy bears (H)?" or i don't know, can anyone give me some good C&F answers for this situation?.

PS: i'm against canned C&F lines but nonetheless i think it would improve my game to see different responses to the same thing :p thanks!

PS2: Oh btw i don't really look like a teddy bear, who the **** knows :p my face is cute and i'm kinda overweight so that may be it :D i do like the fact that since this hb told me that know i can talk to her and her friends (hbs too) like i know them for a while *without any effort/me approaching/anythingxD*! meanwhile my other guy friends haven't talkted to them!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Seriously people need to understand that Djing is a way of life and you can't be off guard.
my asnwer:"So you are attracted to teddy bears huh?"
 
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"You look like a teddy bear"

"As in you wanna squeeze, cuddle, and sleep with me?"
 
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ValleyDJing said:
"As in you wanna squeeze, cuddle, and sleep with me?"
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Lol nice reply. I'd go for "If your looking for an excuse to tell your parents when they find me in your bed your gonna have to do better than that."
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Infraction

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Plec07 said:
Lol nice reply. I'd go for "If your looking for an excuse to tell your parents when they find me in your bed your gonna have to do better than that."
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Great one.+1 rep.
 
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Cheers Infraction, now I just need to keep practising till I can come up with stuff like that 100% of the time lol.
 
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