When the BS out weighs the beauty.....next.You’re right, I tolerated too much. I’ve learned a lot from that relationship. All the nice/sweet/caring/considerate things she did, did not make up for the BS.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
When the BS out weighs the beauty.....next.You’re right, I tolerated too much. I’ve learned a lot from that relationship. All the nice/sweet/caring/considerate things she did, did not make up for the BS.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Sorry marcel we cant all be like you and married yet frequenting this forum to spout posion. The day I get married, I won’t be here trolling, I’ll be living a fulfilled life.Lol...all chicks are tied to their phones.
I swear I see so many people just concerned about meaningless crap on this forum. WTF is this forum coming to?
If you dont like her using her phone that much, then find another woman to spend time with! She isnt going to change for you just like you wouldnt change for her. The sh!t is pretty simple.
What's next? Someone going to post a thread about how to make their girlfriend stop wearing black shoes? How to get them to stop taking more than 5 minutes to text back? Oh wait we've already had that one numerous times...
SMFH
Yeah if you don't like that a woman is on her phone all the time, you may as well just get it over with and become gay. It would be easier and less troublesome to change your sexual orientation than to find a girl who doesn't live her life through her phone or make a woman not do so. That's just a reality today. It's like getting with a smoker because you want to make them quit, you're going against the wind.Lol...all chicks are tied to their phones.
I swear I see so many people just concerned about meaningless crap on this forum. WTF is this forum coming to?
If you dont like her using her phone that much, then find another woman to spend time with! She isnt going to change for you just like you wouldnt change for her. The sh!t is pretty simple.
What's next? Someone going to post a thread about how to make their girlfriend stop wearing black shoes? How to get them to stop taking more than 5 minutes to text back? Oh wait we've already had that one numerous times...
SMFH
There is no trolling going on just telling of the truth. Many times to people who only want to listen to others who tell them exactly what they want to hear so they can continue doing what they planned to do all along.Sorry marcel we cant all be like you and married yet frequenting this forum to spout posion. The day I get married, I won’t be here trolling, I’ll be living a fulfilled life.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.