When the BS out weighs the beauty.....next.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Breaking her of the phone habit
- Thread starter djthiago1
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
marmel75
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Lol...all chicks are tied to their phones.
I swear I see so many people just concerned about meaningless crap on this forum. WTF is this forum coming to?
If you dont like her using her phone that much, then find another woman to spend time with! She isnt going to change for you just like you wouldnt change for her. The sh!t is pretty simple.
What's next? Someone going to post a thread about how to make their girlfriend stop wearing black shoes? How to get them to stop taking more than 5 minutes to text back? Oh wait we've already had that one numerous times...
SMFH
I swear I see so many people just concerned about meaningless crap on this forum. WTF is this forum coming to?
If you dont like her using her phone that much, then find another woman to spend time with! She isnt going to change for you just like you wouldnt change for her. The sh!t is pretty simple.
What's next? Someone going to post a thread about how to make their girlfriend stop wearing black shoes? How to get them to stop taking more than 5 minutes to text back? Oh wait we've already had that one numerous times...
SMFH
Murk
Master Don Juan
Sorry marcel we cant all be like you and married yet frequenting this forum to spout posion. The day I get married, I won’t be here trolling, I’ll be living a fulfilled life.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
Yeah if you don't like that a woman is on her phone all the time, you may as well just get it over with and become gay. It would be easier and less troublesome to change your sexual orientation than to find a girl who doesn't live her life through her phone or make a woman not do so. That's just a reality today. It's like getting with a smoker because you want to make them quit, you're going against the wind.
marmel75
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There is no trolling going on just telling of the truth. Many times to people who only want to listen to others who tell them exactly what they want to hear so they can continue doing what they planned to do all along.
Like it, don't like it, it makes no difference.
Time will prove me right.
And what does being married have to do with any of this?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
