"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Breaking her of the phone habit

dude99

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You’re right, I tolerated too much. I’ve learned a lot from that relationship. All the nice/sweet/caring/considerate things she did, did not make up for the BS.
When the BS out weighs the beauty.....next.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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marmel75

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Lol...all chicks are tied to their phones.

I swear I see so many people just concerned about meaningless crap on this forum. WTF is this forum coming to?

If you dont like her using her phone that much, then find another woman to spend time with! She isnt going to change for you just like you wouldnt change for her. The sh!t is pretty simple.

What's next? Someone going to post a thread about how to make their girlfriend stop wearing black shoes? How to get them to stop taking more than 5 minutes to text back? Oh wait we've already had that one numerous times...

SMFH
 

Murk

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Lol...all chicks are tied to their phones.

I swear I see so many people just concerned about meaningless crap on this forum. WTF is this forum coming to?

If you dont like her using her phone that much, then find another woman to spend time with! She isnt going to change for you just like you wouldnt change for her. The sh!t is pretty simple.

What's next? Someone going to post a thread about how to make their girlfriend stop wearing black shoes? How to get them to stop taking more than 5 minutes to text back? Oh wait we've already had that one numerous times...

SMFH
Sorry marcel we cant all be like you and married yet frequenting this forum to spout posion. The day I get married, I won’t be here trolling, I’ll be living a fulfilled life.
 

AttackFormation

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Lol...all chicks are tied to their phones.

I swear I see so many people just concerned about meaningless crap on this forum. WTF is this forum coming to?

If you dont like her using her phone that much, then find another woman to spend time with! She isnt going to change for you just like you wouldnt change for her. The sh!t is pretty simple.

What's next? Someone going to post a thread about how to make their girlfriend stop wearing black shoes? How to get them to stop taking more than 5 minutes to text back? Oh wait we've already had that one numerous times...

SMFH
Yeah if you don't like that a woman is on her phone all the time, you may as well just get it over with and become gay. It would be easier and less troublesome to change your sexual orientation than to find a girl who doesn't live her life through her phone or make a woman not do so. That's just a reality today. It's like getting with a smoker because you want to make them quit, you're going against the wind.
 

marmel75

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Sorry marcel we cant all be like you and married yet frequenting this forum to spout posion. The day I get married, I won’t be here trolling, I’ll be living a fulfilled life.
There is no trolling going on just telling of the truth. Many times to people who only want to listen to others who tell them exactly what they want to hear so they can continue doing what they planned to do all along.

Like it, don't like it, it makes no difference.

Time will prove me right.

And what does being married have to do with any of this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Texting is usually a good problem to have, it's when they stop then you know its a problem.
 
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