When the BS out weighs the beauty.....next.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Breaking her of the phone habit
- Thread starter djthiago1
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
marmel75
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Lol...all chicks are tied to their phones.
I swear I see so many people just concerned about meaningless crap on this forum. WTF is this forum coming to?
If you dont like her using her phone that much, then find another woman to spend time with! She isnt going to change for you just like you wouldnt change for her. The sh!t is pretty simple.
What's next? Someone going to post a thread about how to make their girlfriend stop wearing black shoes? How to get them to stop taking more than 5 minutes to text back? Oh wait we've already had that one numerous times...
SMFH
I swear I see so many people just concerned about meaningless crap on this forum. WTF is this forum coming to?
If you dont like her using her phone that much, then find another woman to spend time with! She isnt going to change for you just like you wouldnt change for her. The sh!t is pretty simple.
What's next? Someone going to post a thread about how to make their girlfriend stop wearing black shoes? How to get them to stop taking more than 5 minutes to text back? Oh wait we've already had that one numerous times...
SMFH
Murk
Master Don Juan
Sorry marcel we cant all be like you and married yet frequenting this forum to spout posion. The day I get married, I won’t be here trolling, I’ll be living a fulfilled life.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
Yeah if you don't like that a woman is on her phone all the time, you may as well just get it over with and become gay. It would be easier and less troublesome to change your sexual orientation than to find a girl who doesn't live her life through her phone or make a woman not do so. That's just a reality today. It's like getting with a smoker because you want to make them quit, you're going against the wind.
marmel75
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There is no trolling going on just telling of the truth. Many times to people who only want to listen to others who tell them exactly what they want to hear so they can continue doing what they planned to do all along.
Like it, don't like it, it makes no difference.
Time will prove me right.
And what does being married have to do with any of this?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
