"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Brad Pitt: Workout & Body [Merged Threads]

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have never understood the fasination of Brad Pitt either.

When he broke up with Jennifer Aniston one of the sweetest babes or at least she appears to be I thought wtf and now the dude is with a gal that hollywood wants every guy to think is the prettiest sexiest woman living and I differ on that fact. The woman is strange as hell in my opinion and that takes away any beauty she might have and now Brad Pitt is with her and is turned into a woman himself with no backbone when I see them two together I say to myself what a nice lisbian couple.

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Throttle said:
i don't see that the two are mutually exclusive. the movie is clearly weird AND ****ed-up AND brilliant. and makes even less sense if you don't watch it from start to finish.

i also don't see why guys keep trying to look like b.p. ok, i understand it, but it's based on a tragic misunderstanding of what women want.
 

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Hmm, Aniston's ok but I've always seen her as being a bit meh...

Jolie on the other hand is ****ing HOT!!!!!

Yeah I can see what women find attractive about Pitt, ideal body and I always like his character in a any films (apart from Troy that was a ****-fest).
 

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Someone here awhile back wondered or wanted the workout that Brad Pitt used in getting in shape for the movie Fight Club. Well, here it is, it's not my cup of tea as it doesn't consist of the big lifts like deads and barbell squats.

http://www.askmen.com/sports/bodybuilding_150/167_fitness_tip.html
Kinda contradicts the meaning to fight club. Though I must say his body in that movie is something I wouldn't mind having.
 

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Brad Pitt in Fight Club did not have that great of a physique, he was pretty skinny. He had a better physique in Troy. The Fight Club physique is actually not that hard to achieve. You just have to push yourself to go the gym regulary, which most guys are too lazy to do.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NickSCFC2000 said:
Hmm, Aniston's ok but I've always seen her as being a bit meh...

Jolie on the other hand is ****ing HOT!!!!!
yeh and from what anybody can tell (through the anti-paparazzi smokescreen they throw up) she's turning brad into a total *****. of course, this thread is veering dangerously on topic, lol.....
 

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Most guys I see with the hottest girls seem to have really skinny waists but big shoulders and have noticeable pecks, where as most really muscular guys I see have fat girlfriends.
 

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LoneSilver said:
Someone here awhile back wondered or wanted the workout that Brad Pitt used in getting in shape for the movie Fight Club. Well, here it is, it's not my cup of tea as it doesn't consist of the big lifts like deads and barbell squats.

http://www.askmen.com/sports/bodybuilding_150/167_fitness_tip.html
Pfft. That workout's for pansies. I myself do the Johnn Wayne workout.

I can throw 3 guys through windows and break chairs on their heads.
 

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yeah he looks pretty skinny, low body fat is the key and a slight bit of muscle to achieve that look, its not that hard really.

Don't forget, actors get pumped before taking there shirts of in films, normally he would look just like a skinny dude before he got all the blood pumping to his muscles a few minute before filming.
 

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“Get off your horse and drink your milk.”
John Wayne quote

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Pfft. That workout's for pansies. I myself do the Johnn Wayne workout.

I can throw 3 guys through windows and break chairs on their heads.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Diets & Work out plan Plz Critique. Goal Brad Pitt type body! thx =)

I am currently 140lbs and I consider myself a hard gainer. My goal however is just to be lean and muscular (brad pitt from fight club lol), with some ripped abs. This is my current routine and diet.

Work out routation 3day split, 3 excercises, 3 sets of 10. Heavy
day 1 - Chest / Back
day 2 - Bicep / Tricep
day 3 - Shoulders / Legs
day 4 - day off
day 5 - repeat etc.

Cardio 20 minutes every other day
Abs 4 times a week Mon, Weds, Fri, Sat, 2 excercises, 3 sets, continued until i feel the burn in the abs

Diet - 6 meals a day, 2-3 hr intervals usually 2hr but worst case 3hr. 16 cups of water each day.

Meal 1 - 2 scrambled eggs
Meal 2 - Soup (usually chicken mushroom lemon grass soup)
Meal 3 - Muscle Milk Protien Shake
wait 1 hr then take my NO2 workout drink
(work out)
Meal 4 - Muscle Milk Protein Shake
Meal 5 - 2 small bowls of fried rice, 1 chicken breast [cooked on the george foreman =) ]
Meal 6 - 1 Chicken breast

I'm looking for results, while not looking to sacrifice my health. I've read that a no carb high protein diet is bad for the health so i figure I would have carbs once a day for dinner. I'm really not sure if this is the correct routine to reach my goals. Please critique =)
 

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Get ride of the fried rice. Stop eating any white bread,or white rice all together and only eat wheat bread and brown rice in the AMs. Other then that your eating habits look right on track. Load up on fruits and some veggies and they will help you lean out. Lift HARD in the gym and eat right and you will have no reason to do cardio!(kill two birds with one stone) Make sure you eat when your supposed to and lift when your supposed to and you'll be there in no time.

Good Luck!
 
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It seems we have a "help me, want to look like brad pitt" thread every week.
 

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Lift HARD in the gym and eat right and you will have no reason to do cardio!(kill two birds with one stone)
No reason to do cardio? Amazing!
 

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No reason to do cardio? Amazing!
You can if you please. I've found out for myself(you could be different) that as long as I give it 100% in the gym and 110% in the kitchen then i just get rid of body fat quickly w/o cardio.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah blink, but not all of us can lose a lot of fat without cardio ;)

I'd say a lot of us need to.

-shaun
 

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I'm not talking about bodyfat loss. What about all the health benefits associated with cardio? You don't want them?
 

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all the cut out rice comments...its just that how bad is the white rice/bread...i mean i'm asian and i still live with my parents and i have like 1 or 2 bowls of rice a day and maybe 4 slices of white bread...it can't be thaaat bad can it?

yeah...asians like...make love to rice..i eat as little of it as possible but yeah
 

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^^Yes it is that bad. Buy your own food, asian food is poo for gaining muscle. Or just eat the meat and veg.

Just read the "idiots guide to growth". Search this forum for it. Where did you get that workout from? It looks terrible, three intense workouts followed by one rest day.
Cardio it good for you but it takes from your gains.

Actually, Just join a powerlifting gym. You will learn everything you need to know about lifting there.
 

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jayhu12 said:
I am currently 140lbs and I consider myself a hard gainer. My goal however is just to be lean and muscular (brad pitt from fight club lol), with some ripped abs.

YOU JUST NEED TO GAIN AROUND 10LBS OF MUSCLE AND BE PRETTY LEAN TO HAVE THAT LOOK WHICH ISN'T TOUGH

This is my current routine and diet.

Work out routation 3day split, 3 excercises, 3 sets of 10. Heavy
day 1 - Chest / Back
day 2 - Bicep / Tricep
day 3 - Shoulders / Legs
day 4 - day off
day 5 - repeat etc.

Cardio 20 minutes every other day
Abs 4 times a week Mon, Weds, Fri, Sat, 2 excercises, 3 sets, continued until i feel the burn in the abs

WOULD SCRAP THAT WHOLE ROUTINE INCLUDING THE ABS AND SEARCH FOR THE IDIOTS GUIDE AND DO THE ROUTINE IN THERE

Diet - 6 meals a day, 2-3 hr intervals usually 2hr but worst case 3hr. 16 cups of water each day.

Meal 1 - 2 scrambled eggs
Meal 2 - Soup (usually chicken mushroom lemon grass soup)
Meal 3 - Muscle Milk Protien Shake
wait 1 hr then take my NO2 workout drink
(work out)
Meal 4 - Muscle Milk Protein Shake
Meal 5 - 2 small bowls of fried rice, 1 chicken breast [cooked on the george foreman =) ]
Meal 6 - 1 Chicken breast

YOU NEED TO MAKE SURE YOUR GETTING 140X2= 280G OF PROTEIN A DAY WITH AROUND 200-250 CARBS AND 120-135 FAT (FOR THOSE WONDERING THESE CARB FAT NUMBERS AREN'T SOME FORMULA THERE JUST A STARTING POINT BASED ON THE LITTLE INFO I HAVE)



I'm looking for results, while not looking to sacrifice my health. I've read that a no carb high protein diet is bad for the health so i figure I would have carbs once a day for dinner. I'm really not sure if this is the correct routine to reach my goals. Please critique =)

SEE CAPS

Also take all of blinkwatt's advice with a grain a salt (maybe actually a handful). Not trying to diss him, he means very well. He's just found something that works for him and his 2 training buddies,so he generally posts information drawn from that context, when in reality his general theory (lift 6 days a week hard, don't worry about how much your eating just eat very clean, don't do any cardio, don't worry much about getting a lot of sleep) won't work for the majority of the weightlifting community.

This is nothing against you personally blink. Just the advice you give the majority of the time is just flat out terrible for the majority of the lifting community.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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