I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Zarky is a gutless piece of sh!tZarky said:umm... off topic much?
Or, he could have purchased a firearm illegally any day of the week just like any other Joe Blow bad guy.Bible_Belt said:They're saying today it was two 6-quart pressure cookers with BBs as shrapnel. Now they are going to make pressure cookers like sudafed where you have to give your driver's license to buy one. The whole thing sounds like lone wolf nut case. If you want to talk irony, it could have been someone who was not able to purchase a firearm due to gun control laws, so he made bombs instead.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Guns have nothing to do with bombs. Lets not even go there. Two very different weapons. Also, one must consider how rare bomb attacks are.5string said:We should do background checks on all folks who own, buy or make bombs.
Yep, they are different for sure.Jaylan said:Guns have nothing to do with bombs. Lets not even go there. Two very different weapons. Also, one must consider how rare bomb attacks are.
Here here!Danger said:My own mirrored perspective on the "gun control" efforts.
http://www.freemansperspective.com/death-by-government/
One of the best quotes....
And of course, as the writer points out, Governments are for more dangerous with weapons than citizens are.
Having said that, can the anti-white racism get any worse?
http://www.salon.com/2013/04/16/lets_hope_the_boston_marathon_bomber_is_a_white_american/
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Disturbing links.Danger said:My own mirrored perspective on the "gun control" efforts.
http://www.freemansperspective.com/death-by-government/
One of the best quotes....
And of course, as the writer points out, Governments are for more dangerous with weapons than citizens are.
Having said that, can the anti-white racism get any worse?
http://www.salon.com/2013/04/16/lets_hope_the_boston_marathon_bomber_is_a_white_american/