She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Zarky is a gutless piece of sh!tZarky said:umm... off topic much?
Or, he could have purchased a firearm illegally any day of the week just like any other Joe Blow bad guy.Bible_Belt said:They're saying today it was two 6-quart pressure cookers with BBs as shrapnel. Now they are going to make pressure cookers like sudafed where you have to give your driver's license to buy one. The whole thing sounds like lone wolf nut case. If you want to talk irony, it could have been someone who was not able to purchase a firearm due to gun control laws, so he made bombs instead.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Guns have nothing to do with bombs. Lets not even go there. Two very different weapons. Also, one must consider how rare bomb attacks are.5string said:We should do background checks on all folks who own, buy or make bombs.
Yep, they are different for sure.Jaylan said:Guns have nothing to do with bombs. Lets not even go there. Two very different weapons. Also, one must consider how rare bomb attacks are.
Here here!Danger said:My own mirrored perspective on the "gun control" efforts.
http://www.freemansperspective.com/death-by-government/
One of the best quotes....
And of course, as the writer points out, Governments are for more dangerous with weapons than citizens are.
Having said that, can the anti-white racism get any worse?
http://www.salon.com/2013/04/16/lets_hope_the_boston_marathon_bomber_is_a_white_american/
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Disturbing links.Danger said:My own mirrored perspective on the "gun control" efforts.
http://www.freemansperspective.com/death-by-government/
One of the best quotes....
And of course, as the writer points out, Governments are for more dangerous with weapons than citizens are.
Having said that, can the anti-white racism get any worse?
http://www.salon.com/2013/04/16/lets_hope_the_boston_marathon_bomber_is_a_white_american/