Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Zarky is a gutless piece of sh!tZarky said:umm... off topic much?
Or, he could have purchased a firearm illegally any day of the week just like any other Joe Blow bad guy.Bible_Belt said:They're saying today it was two 6-quart pressure cookers with BBs as shrapnel. Now they are going to make pressure cookers like sudafed where you have to give your driver's license to buy one. The whole thing sounds like lone wolf nut case. If you want to talk irony, it could have been someone who was not able to purchase a firearm due to gun control laws, so he made bombs instead.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Guns have nothing to do with bombs. Lets not even go there. Two very different weapons. Also, one must consider how rare bomb attacks are.5string said:We should do background checks on all folks who own, buy or make bombs.
Yep, they are different for sure.Jaylan said:Guns have nothing to do with bombs. Lets not even go there. Two very different weapons. Also, one must consider how rare bomb attacks are.
Here here!Danger said:My own mirrored perspective on the "gun control" efforts.
http://www.freemansperspective.com/death-by-government/
One of the best quotes....
And of course, as the writer points out, Governments are for more dangerous with weapons than citizens are.
Having said that, can the anti-white racism get any worse?
http://www.salon.com/2013/04/16/lets_hope_the_boston_marathon_bomber_is_a_white_american/
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Disturbing links.Danger said:My own mirrored perspective on the "gun control" efforts.
http://www.freemansperspective.com/death-by-government/
One of the best quotes....
And of course, as the writer points out, Governments are for more dangerous with weapons than citizens are.
Having said that, can the anti-white racism get any worse?
http://www.salon.com/2013/04/16/lets_hope_the_boston_marathon_bomber_is_a_white_american/