"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Boston Marathon BOMBED Turn on the news!!
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
had a few friends only several blocks from where it went down. Thankfully everyone I know is ok.
backseatjuan
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
5string
Master Don Juan
Bible_Belt
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5string
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Or, he could have purchased a firearm illegally any day of the week just like any other Joe Blow bad guy.Bible_Belt said:
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Also the place of the bombing has no particular meaning, its not a power building or a military base nor a national monument, it smells to me unabomber style.
Its probably some lone wolf with problems with society, he decided to struck there mostly because that marathon even before being a sport event is a socialization one and isolated lone wolfs Sodini type suffers when people meet each other and enjoy, it makes them feel even more lonely and rejected.
The more society becomes interconnected and put pressure on those who dont fit the "socialization criteria" and the more actions like this we're gonna see.
There are thousands for outcast and rejected men who just need a spark to detonate, nobody gives a fvck about those men either society nor politics and they feel that they have no other choice than do such things.
Just try to read Brevik diary or unabomber one, sure there is an "agenda" behind it but mostly the detonator are personal reasons, from alienation to rejection, if you read Sodini's one is obvious.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
5string
Master Don Juan
Yep, they are different for sure.Jaylan said:
Check out this link. China outlaws guns, so what do the nut cases do? They get a knife or a cleaver to kill or mame.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2010_Chinese_school_attacks
If you think that gun control in this country will solve this problem, you are wrong. All it will do is shred the second amendment and punish law abiding Americans who have a right to protect family, property and person.
Let's now ban airplanes (9/11), fertilizer (Oklahoma City) and while we're at it,
pressure cookers (Boston), coffee pots, toasters, etc.
The issue at hand is mental illness. This is where we as a country need to concentrate our efforts.
Let me go a step forward and get a bit radical. When they catch those guy(s) that bombed Boston, we should hang them in front of Madison Square Garden without delay rather than allowing them 30 years on death row, endless appeals and millions spent in their defense by us, the taxpayers.
If we treated mental illness and had an actual meaningful deterrent to these crimes, ie swift justice, maybe we would see a decrease in these incidents.
Just my opinion.
5string
Master Don Juan
Here here!Danger said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.