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How do I get started in the so called bootcamp? Any help would be appreciated.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Bootcamp?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I assumed as much but where are the instructions.. I guess I could spend an hour looking for it, or someone could just help. Either way I am sure I will figure it out. Thanks in advance.
Spend the hour. It involves reading the bible. And without reading the bible, you really have no place to start and thus will not learn.Old School said:I assumed as much but where are the instructions.. I guess I could spend an hour looking for it, or someone could just help. Either way I am sure I will figure it out. Thanks in advance.
Stop being lazy. If you're too lazy to read for an hour to get started, then you're going to be too lazy to get your ass out in the field.
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Perfect. Thats what I needed to know. Didn't realize it was part of or included in the bible. Thanks.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Old School said:Perfect. Thats what I needed to know. Didn't realize it was part of or included in the bible. Thanks.
That would be because you didnt read the "read the sticky first before you start"
Seriously learn to read.
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Wow.. Friendly reception. Thanks again for the advice. Starting english 101 this afternoon, perhaps a literary course in the coming weeks.. Geez.
no offense bro but we're looking to share experience to improve our efforts in dating and seduction ... this involves a lot of reading thinking and more than anything... practiceOld School said:Wow.. Friendly reception. Thanks again for the advice. Starting english 101 this afternoon, perhaps a literary course in the coming weeks.. Geez.
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Yes, a lack of effort on my part for sure. I have dove head first into the bible (Good Stuff) and have been reading some good discussions. I do have a question that I believe is a bit more warranted. Once I start week one of boot camp, which specific forum can I post my progress or lack of?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.