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How do I get started in the so called bootcamp? Any help would be appreciated.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Bootcamp?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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I assumed as much but where are the instructions.. I guess I could spend an hour looking for it, or someone could just help. Either way I am sure I will figure it out. Thanks in advance.
Spend the hour. It involves reading the bible. And without reading the bible, you really have no place to start and thus will not learn.Old School said:I assumed as much but where are the instructions.. I guess I could spend an hour looking for it, or someone could just help. Either way I am sure I will figure it out. Thanks in advance.
Stop being lazy. If you're too lazy to read for an hour to get started, then you're going to be too lazy to get your ass out in the field.
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Perfect. Thats what I needed to know. Didn't realize it was part of or included in the bible. Thanks.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Old School said:Perfect. Thats what I needed to know. Didn't realize it was part of or included in the bible. Thanks.
That would be because you didnt read the "read the sticky first before you start"
Seriously learn to read.
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Wow.. Friendly reception. Thanks again for the advice. Starting english 101 this afternoon, perhaps a literary course in the coming weeks.. Geez.
no offense bro but we're looking to share experience to improve our efforts in dating and seduction ... this involves a lot of reading thinking and more than anything... practiceOld School said:Wow.. Friendly reception. Thanks again for the advice. Starting english 101 this afternoon, perhaps a literary course in the coming weeks.. Geez.
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Yes, a lack of effort on my part for sure. I have dove head first into the bible (Good Stuff) and have been reading some good discussions. I do have a question that I believe is a bit more warranted. Once I start week one of boot camp, which specific forum can I post my progress or lack of?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.