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How do I get started in the so called bootcamp? Any help would be appreciated.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Bootcamp?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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I assumed as much but where are the instructions.. I guess I could spend an hour looking for it, or someone could just help. Either way I am sure I will figure it out. Thanks in advance.
Spend the hour. It involves reading the bible. And without reading the bible, you really have no place to start and thus will not learn.Old School said:I assumed as much but where are the instructions.. I guess I could spend an hour looking for it, or someone could just help. Either way I am sure I will figure it out. Thanks in advance.
Stop being lazy. If you're too lazy to read for an hour to get started, then you're going to be too lazy to get your ass out in the field.
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Perfect. Thats what I needed to know. Didn't realize it was part of or included in the bible. Thanks.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Old School said:Perfect. Thats what I needed to know. Didn't realize it was part of or included in the bible. Thanks.
That would be because you didnt read the "read the sticky first before you start"
Seriously learn to read.
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Wow.. Friendly reception. Thanks again for the advice. Starting english 101 this afternoon, perhaps a literary course in the coming weeks.. Geez.
no offense bro but we're looking to share experience to improve our efforts in dating and seduction ... this involves a lot of reading thinking and more than anything... practiceOld School said:Wow.. Friendly reception. Thanks again for the advice. Starting english 101 this afternoon, perhaps a literary course in the coming weeks.. Geez.
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Yes, a lack of effort on my part for sure. I have dove head first into the bible (Good Stuff) and have been reading some good discussions. I do have a question that I believe is a bit more warranted. Once I start week one of boot camp, which specific forum can I post my progress or lack of?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.