"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Old School

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How do I get started in the so called bootcamp? Any help would be appreciated.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I assumed as much but where are the instructions.. I guess I could spend an hour looking for it, or someone could just help. Either way I am sure I will figure it out. Thanks in advance.
 

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Old School said:
I assumed as much but where are the instructions.. I guess I could spend an hour looking for it, or someone could just help. Either way I am sure I will figure it out. Thanks in advance.
Spend the hour. It involves reading the bible. And without reading the bible, you really have no place to start and thus will not learn.

Stop being lazy. If you're too lazy to read for an hour to get started, then you're going to be too lazy to get your ass out in the field.
 

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Perfect. Thats what I needed to know. Didn't realize it was part of or included in the bible. Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Old School said:
Perfect. Thats what I needed to know. Didn't realize it was part of or included in the bible. Thanks.

That would be because you didnt read the "read the sticky first before you start"

Seriously learn to read.
 

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Wow.. Friendly reception. Thanks again for the advice. Starting english 101 this afternoon, perhaps a literary course in the coming weeks.. Geez.
 

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Its just a matter of being self sufficient. While you are welcomed to be here, its the lack of effort that frustrates people here the most.

You'll learn that soon enough lol.
 

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Wow.. Friendly reception. Thanks again for the advice. Starting english 101 this afternoon, perhaps a literary course in the coming weeks.. Geez.
no offense bro but we're looking to share experience to improve our efforts in dating and seduction ... this involves a lot of reading thinking and more than anything... practice
 

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Yes, a lack of effort on my part for sure. I have dove head first into the bible (Good Stuff) and have been reading some good discussions. I do have a question that I believe is a bit more warranted. Once I start week one of boot camp, which specific forum can I post my progress or lack of?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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