"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Boot Camp Thread (Opening May 2nd)

comic_relief

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Im in, if I get enough time but i will try my darndest to complete it
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Maxtro

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Does it matter why it's on a Sunday? Its simply the first day of the week. Also nobody is making you start on the 2nd.
 

Wonderbread166

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No it really doesn't matter, the only reason I brought the date up was because it recommends Thursday in the beginning of the boot camp. No big deal though.
 

Microphone Fiend

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Yo.... are we gonna pair up now? Someone (the threadstarter maybe) should pair up people so that you have someone to push you or compete against...
 

Maxtro

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Great idea or maybe we need a drill sergeant. Somebody to call us pus*y’s and make us clean floor with toothbrushes we have to hold with our arse. Maybe not that extreme but we need a good motivator. Who volunteers?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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JSH

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Ill have a go again
 

AMF

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JSH... In England too mate (Norwich) think we'll be able to help each other here
 
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I like microphone fiend's idea on pairing up. It doesn't have to be anything formal. Anyone who wants to, PM me and we'll try to help each other out. I plan on gettin all I can outta this thing.
 

Genghis Juan

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Pairing up sounds like a good idea. Anyone near my area or on the east coast at least let me know either on the thread or PM me; particularly if you're around my age out of college.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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backbreaker

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what the hell, I will give it a go. I was doing something similar on my own anyway, but I guess it's always better when you can do things as a team rather than alone.
 

Wonderbread166

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Pairing up's a good idea. Let me know if you're around my age and want to in the thread or PM.
 

Ace123

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Anyone in NY, especially Rochester that's a high school student? i know there are a couple on these boards, let me know and we can pair up, sounds like a good idea.
 

Wonderbread166

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I'm a freshman and I live near syracuse so we should partner up
 

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Might want to start NOW. There is no later, there is now. There is no waiting, there is now. I don't see a point in this for waiting because you guys should just go out there and experience things while others are doing so.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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