comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Im in, if I get enough time but i will try my darndest to complete it
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Boot Camp Thread (Opening May 2nd)
- Thread starter One on One
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Lost
Master Don Juan
yo may 2nd is a SUNDAY... WHY SUNDAY?
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
BUMP....................!!!!!!!!
Lost
Master Don Juan
can someone answer my question?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Does it matter why it's on a Sunday? Its simply the first day of the week. Also nobody is making you start on the 2nd.
Wonderbread166
Senior Don Juan
No it really doesn't matter, the only reason I brought the date up was because it recommends Thursday in the beginning of the boot camp. No big deal though.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
Yo.... are we gonna pair up now? Someone (the threadstarter maybe) should pair up people so that you have someone to push you or compete against...
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Great idea or maybe we need a drill sergeant. Somebody to call us pus*y’s and make us clean floor with toothbrushes we have to hold with our arse. Maybe not that extreme but we need a good motivator. Who volunteers?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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easyjim
Guest
I like microphone fiend's idea on pairing up. It doesn't have to be anything formal. Anyone who wants to, PM me and we'll try to help each other out. I plan on gettin all I can outta this thing.
Da-OnlyX
Don Juan
I'm In. Lets make this one count fellas./
Genghis Juan
Senior Don Juan
Pairing up sounds like a good idea. Anyone near my area or on the east coast at least let me know either on the thread or PM me; particularly if you're around my age out of college.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
what the hell, I will give it a go. I was doing something similar on my own anyway, but I guess it's always better when you can do things as a team rather than alone.
Wonderbread166
Senior Don Juan
Pairing up's a good idea. Let me know if you're around my age and want to in the thread or PM.
Ace123
Don Juan
Anyone in NY, especially Rochester that's a high school student? i know there are a couple on these boards, let me know and we can pair up, sounds like a good idea.
Wonderbread166
Senior Don Juan
I'm a freshman and I live near syracuse so we should partner up
Might want to start NOW. There is no later, there is now. There is no waiting, there is now. I don't see a point in this for waiting because you guys should just go out there and experience things while others are doing so.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.