comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Im in, if I get enough time but i will try my darndest to complete it
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Boot Camp Thread (Opening May 2nd)
- Thread starter One on One
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Lost
Master Don Juan
yo may 2nd is a SUNDAY... WHY SUNDAY?
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
BUMP....................!!!!!!!!
Lost
Master Don Juan
can someone answer my question?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Does it matter why it's on a Sunday? Its simply the first day of the week. Also nobody is making you start on the 2nd.
Wonderbread166
Senior Don Juan
No it really doesn't matter, the only reason I brought the date up was because it recommends Thursday in the beginning of the boot camp. No big deal though.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
Yo.... are we gonna pair up now? Someone (the threadstarter maybe) should pair up people so that you have someone to push you or compete against...
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Great idea or maybe we need a drill sergeant. Somebody to call us pus*y’s and make us clean floor with toothbrushes we have to hold with our arse. Maybe not that extreme but we need a good motivator. Who volunteers?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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easyjim
Guest
I like microphone fiend's idea on pairing up. It doesn't have to be anything formal. Anyone who wants to, PM me and we'll try to help each other out. I plan on gettin all I can outta this thing.
Da-OnlyX
Don Juan
I'm In. Lets make this one count fellas./
Genghis Juan
Senior Don Juan
Pairing up sounds like a good idea. Anyone near my area or on the east coast at least let me know either on the thread or PM me; particularly if you're around my age out of college.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
what the hell, I will give it a go. I was doing something similar on my own anyway, but I guess it's always better when you can do things as a team rather than alone.
Wonderbread166
Senior Don Juan
Pairing up's a good idea. Let me know if you're around my age and want to in the thread or PM.
Ace123
Don Juan
Anyone in NY, especially Rochester that's a high school student? i know there are a couple on these boards, let me know and we can pair up, sounds like a good idea.
Wonderbread166
Senior Don Juan
I'm a freshman and I live near syracuse so we should partner up
Might want to start NOW. There is no later, there is now. There is no waiting, there is now. I don't see a point in this for waiting because you guys should just go out there and experience things while others are doing so.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.