"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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myfriendblu

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Kick as s bro,
Its good to see ya made it threw. This site REALLY works. Im curious now as to what your post - bootcamp plans are: Meet girls and have STR's and booty calls, or possible LTR? Or are ya gonna take a short break?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Congrats

Walden,

I think you've got a lot of balls to take this all the way through. Props to you. It seems this board really motivated you. I feel like motivation is the greatest factor in this game, like in sales. It's too easy to let things slide. It's like lifting. Used to be the man, now . . . ahem. Anyway, hope you'll keep up a good baseline DJ level now that boot camp's over.

A1
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I know thread is old but i'm wondering if anybody else finished the program besides Walden. Out of god knows how many users, only one finished?

i'm on my first week.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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even if you don't finish...i think atleast making an attempt to follow the steps in the boot camp will help your conversation and life skills for some time on. Any sort of effort to be apart of the Don Juan boot camp can only help you....so it's all good.
 
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Bump, to stop the thread being deleted due to inactive time.

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Hey Walden. I'm a newbie here and I just read most of your bootcamp. It's really inspiring.

I'm going to start going through it all. Although mine probably will not be quite as thorough I hope it will help me to overcome my fear of approaching girls and shyness.

:cheer: Congrats Walden! :cheer:

Petein
 
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Bump, to stop the thread being deleted due to inactive time.
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How can this thread be deleted, it's in the Bible? What about the other inactive threads in the Bible, will they be deleted too?

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think it is important for people to read a success story to be motivated themselves to make improvements. Nothing leads to success like success right?
 
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Absolutely Amazing

Walden, you have attained herioc status in my eyes. Your boot camp journal is truly inspiring, and I think you did everyone on here a service by making such a detailed recording of your pro gression.
 
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That was awesome. I have to say, seeing someone go through it from the state that I am in right now and evolving so much over the course of the bootcamp really inspires me to do this thing.

I'm starting tomorrow.

Oh, and good job man.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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