SilkiSmooth
Don Juan
Which books do you recommend on meeting, attracting, maintaining girls?.... Also, what are the differences in these books (i.e. DJ v. PUA, meeting v. maintaining a relationship, etc)? Thx, fellas.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I have to get this book asap. Read another article in todays Sunday newspaper - Neil was over here in Ireland for an interview with the writer. There was also an extract where 'Papa' picked up Paris Hilton's digits.The Game
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
In my opinion that book is good but not useful. I stoped reading at page 60 or something like that.Originally posted by Sp1kez
I've read most of "The art of seduction" by Robert Greene, it is a really good book, it has a lot of similarities to the DJ bible but in different terms and context, very good book.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Originally posted by whyshy
In my opinion that book is good but not useful. I stoped reading at page 60 or something like that.
I agree. It's not a guide on how to go from AFC to DJ, but it does enable those of us who are students of seduction reach a new level of skill and gives us deeper understanding of the art.Originally posted by SeldomSeen
you're missing out on so much then if you dont finish reading the Art of Seduction
That book can be used in so many ways and in so many situations that its a shame that any person aspiring to be a DJ would dismiss it. Enchanting is the best way to describe it