"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Book Recommendations???

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Which books do you recommend on meeting, attracting, maintaining girls?.... Also, what are the differences in these books (i.e. DJ v. PUA, meeting v. maintaining a relationship, etc)? Thx, fellas.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've read most of "The art of seduction" by Robert Greene, it is a really good book, it has a lot of similarities to the DJ bible but in different terms and context, very good book.
 

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So far all the books i have read svcked d**k big time!!!!The info on this site are 100 times better!
 

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You're probably reading the wrong books. The last three I bought are fantastic, and have been recommended elsewhere on this same site.
 

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The Way of the Superior Man, by David Deida or something. It's been a couple years since I've read it so I can't make any real specific comments on it, but I found it very DJ-esque, if not a tad bit new-agey. Very eye-opening book, though, and a very fast read.

A really good e-book I read back when I as first starting to take the proverbial blindfold off my eyes was Without Embarrassment by Mike Pilinski. I don't know if it's worth reading if you're not "clueless" on girls or have read lots of other stuff, but I found it to be a very good starting point and consider it to be the first thing that really opened my eyes to the way girls work and think when it comes to guys, and how to interact with them. After all the other stuff I've soaked in since then, though, it'd be interesting to re-read it and see how original it really was.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thanks man. I'll definitely pick that up the next time I'm out.

My recommended picks:

"48 Laws of Power"
"Art of Seduction"
"The Game"
"Maximum Influence: The 12 Universal Laws of Power Persuasion"
"Psycho Cybernetics"
"The Prince"
"Basic Writings of Nietzsche"

Cost me a fortune -- some were $30 each! -- , but it'll be worth it.
 

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I recommend a couple that've given me some insight and helped me narrow my field of vision:

Irrational Man by William Barrett A good treatise about Existensialism and modern man.

The Game by Neil Strauss (for all known reasons)

Do what thou wilt " A life of Aleister Crowley" by Lawrence Sutin
This book is important, not for it's wanton excursion into Frater Perdurabos life, but more about conditioning his mental acuity
and creating his own destiny.


Karma
 

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I have to get this book asap. Read another article in todays Sunday newspaper - Neil was over here in Ireland for an interview with the writer. There was also an extract where 'Papa' picked up Paris Hilton's digits.

Excellent stuff.

Books I can recommend:

Psycho Cybernetics -- Maxwell Maltz

Feel the Fear... and do it anyway -- Susan Jeffers

The Game (Im guessing its excellent lol!) -- Neil Strauss
 

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I'm reading the Inner game of work By Timoth Gallwey and I am greatly enjoying it. I'll add further comment later but basically it is talking alot about our self critical mind and how it is better to shut it out and get into flow.

Pretty good for an overanalytical person like myself to read this!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Shezz: Really?! Gonna take a look at that...

Was Papa a Dj then? Or was he on fastseduction?
 

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Shezz, I couldnt find any posts by Papa - only a pap... ?
 

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I remember when Papa posted that. Since I'm not a regular reader of that site, I seriously thought he was full of ****.

I thought he meant a Paris Hilton lookalike. Little did I know, LOL.
 

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Originally posted by Sp1kez
I've read most of "The art of seduction" by Robert Greene, it is a really good book, it has a lot of similarities to the DJ bible but in different terms and context, very good book.
In my opinion that book is good but not useful. I stoped reading at page 60 or something like that.
 

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i wonder if u use the internet archive u can find posts by style and others
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What you should read is

Mastery by George Leonard ( understand mastery )

Art of war, The prince and 48 laws of power ( learning how to beat enemies )

Napoleon Hill - Think And Grow Rich ( GREAT BOOK !! A MUST READ !!!! LEARN THE TRUE SERECT TO SUCCESS, READ THIS BOOK AND UNDERSTAND THE SERCET INSIDE IT AND YOU WILL BE OPEN INTO DOING ANYTHING)

Read Body language ( A must, look at my signature, your missing out on alot of communation )

Not books alone will help you. Use them to help you understand their teachings AND GET OUT IN THE FIELD. Thats where you learn the most and the best.
 

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the game

Ive read the game, but the majority of girls he picked up were strippers, no class at all. Anyone who hangs around in clubs that much should pick up more women then he did.
 

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RE:

Originally posted by whyshy
In my opinion that book is good but not useful. I stoped reading at page 60 or something like that.

you're missing out on so much then if you dont finish reading the Art of Seduction
That book can be used in so many ways and in so many situations that its a shame that any person aspiring to be a DJ would dismiss it. Enchanting is the best way to describe it
 

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Re: RE:

Originally posted by SeldomSeen
you're missing out on so much then if you dont finish reading the Art of Seduction
That book can be used in so many ways and in so many situations that its a shame that any person aspiring to be a DJ would dismiss it. Enchanting is the best way to describe it
I agree. It's not a guide on how to go from AFC to DJ, but it does enable those of us who are students of seduction reach a new level of skill and gives us deeper understanding of the art.
 
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