"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BMW vs Mercedes

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I am debating on weather to get a BMW or mercedes as my next vehicle. Anybody have a preference of one over other? Why?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mercedes are more reliable. Not sure about service for Mercedes but BMW is notorious for service costs. Everything is tied together and it takes a freaking technician to replace a bulb. This is on the new beemers. The old ones don't have this issue at all.


Anyways, look at everything before you buy this car.
 

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Actually many mercedes are pieces of junk in reliability- it depends on the model. A few years back I was looking into an E-Class and then went online and read all about the transmissions blowing out, etc.. in that model.


I ended up going with an Audi A4 Convertible and have never had a single problem with it (around 46,000 miles on it now). Knock on wood.

Service costs are going to be very high for any german vehicle. Even VW's (also have a Jetta turbo) have high part costs.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mercedes. It's just much more classy now that everyone and their grandma seems to drive a beemer and they look much better (BMWs turned ugly the last decade). Both have high maintanence costs, you should be looking at Japanese cars if that's a huge concern.
 

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My parents had an E class when I was young and its service was horrible. I've been in a new Mercedes and I must say it's state of the art.
 

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I do not want anything fancy cause I don't have any money. and I do not want to finance anything. I currently have about 2 grand and want to use it to either purchase some used mercedes or BMWs. I already have a deal with some guy for 1800 mercedes C280 1997. I drove the vehicle few days ago and it seems pretty great. I am waiting on my body who is good with vehicles to come check it out for me tomorrow. If things go well, I will get tomorrow, thus if he thinks it is a good deal. Else, I will have to wait to get the BMW 741 which now clocks at 5500.
 

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amoka said:
I do not want anything fancy cause I don't have any money. and I do not want to finance anything. I currently have about 2 grand and want to use it to either purchase some used mercedes or BMWs. I already have a deal with some guy for 1800 mercedes C280 1997. I drove the vehicle few days ago and it seems pretty great. I am waiting on my body who is good with vehicles to come check it out for me tomorrow. If things go well, I will get tomorrow, thus if he thinks it is a good deal. Else, I will have to wait to get the BMW 741 which now clocks at 5500.
Are you kidding me?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Captain Harlock said:
You don't have much money but you do want to buy a 7-series?
Don't bother dude. I see it all the time. People always love to buy sh*t they can't afford (to maintain even) and the b*tch about it afterwards. It's someone else's fault. It's the car company for building an expensive to maintain vehicle, its the credit union for the high loan cost, its the employer for not giving enough money, its the people who told about the vehicle and how they didn't warn... etc.

Although more reliable and cheaper to maintain even a Japanese car seems unaffordable.
 

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For that price buy a honda or toyota. If you have very little $ the first repair bill on a German car will kill you.
 

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amoka said:
No. Is it not a good idea to purchase a used mercedes at that price?
'not a good idea' is probably a huge understatement. The thing is going to drain your money like no woman could. For 2k I'd look for a small reliable car. Sure, maybe you look like an idiot, but at least it's a better choice if you don't earn that much money. Don't forget insurance and taxes will also be higher for a Merc not to mention fuel consumption.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thank you all, including Captain, for their suggestions.
Captain Harlock said:
maybe you look like an idiot
You don't know me and certainly have not met me before. It is completely inappropriate of you to be calling some you've never met an "idiot". I do not do web battle; hence, do not wish to discuss this matter any further and hope you don't repeat this sort of comment with anybody either here or all other internet forums.
 

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amoka said:
Thank you all, including Captain, for their suggestions.

You don't know me and certainly have not met me before. It is completely inappropriate of you to be calling some you've never met an "idiot". I do not do web battle; hence, do not wish to discuss this matter any further and hope you don't repeat this sort of comment with anybody either here or all other internet forums.
He never called you an idiot. He said that if you were to drive an older honda or toyota, you might look like an idiot (due to the fact that it is not classy nor a looker). Don't be so quick to jump at people, and try to actually read the entire paragraph before responding.

Oh, and PS. I am now calling you an idiot.
 

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amoka said:
You don't know me and certainly have not met me before. It is completely inappropriate of you to be calling some you've never met an "idiot". I do not do web battle; hence, do not wish to discuss this matter any further and hope you don't repeat this sort of comment with anybody either here or all other internet forums.
Dude, he's pretty spot on. Ever hear the phrase don't buy sh*t you can't afford? You can't afford the car. There's more to vehicles than the initial cost. I can't believe I have to tell you this. Have you even driven or owned a car before?

Do you know how much a freaking simple CV joint costs for a vehicle like this? Look up a couple of parts, then you'll also feel like an idiot besides looking like one.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
Dude, he's pretty spot on. Ever hear the phrase don't buy sh*t you can't afford? You can't afford the car. There's more to vehicles than the initial cost. I can't believe I have to tell you this. Have you even driven or owned a car before?

Do you know how much a freaking simple CV joint costs for a vehicle like this? Look up a couple of parts, then you'll also feel like an idiot besides looking like one.
Actually, I do know the cost of CV joint for this vehicle is much LESS than the same CV joint for my Honda accord and civic. To clarify things, I wanted to buy these cars at the stated price so that I maybe able to work on them myself in the event of problems.
 

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Actually, I do know the cost of CV joint for this vehicle is much LESS than the same CV joint for my Honda accord and civic. To clarify things, I wanted to buy these cars at the stated price so that I maybe able to work on them myself in the event of problems.
Or you can simply buy a car that's not been beaten into the ground, and this means less repairs and less money and time spent just making sure its drivable.

The cars look nice, they might even feel nice but the cost is MASSIVE to keep these things on the road. Buying a newer car means that it will run longer before you repair the damn thing. Unless you want to spend all your time in the garage pumping money and time to keep the car on life support.

Good luck dude. Looks like you're going to learn the hard way.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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