She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Nobody cares.EA Gold said:I'm getting a Bmw 650i
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Are you kidding me?amoka said:I do not want anything fancy cause I don't have any money. and I do not want to finance anything. I currently have about 2 grand and want to use it to either purchase some used mercedes or BMWs. I already have a deal with some guy for 1800 mercedes C280 1997. I drove the vehicle few days ago and it seems pretty great. I am waiting on my body who is good with vehicles to come check it out for me tomorrow. If things go well, I will get tomorrow, thus if he thinks it is a good deal. Else, I will have to wait to get the BMW 741 which now clocks at 5500.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Don't bother dude. I see it all the time. People always love to buy sh*t they can't afford (to maintain even) and the b*tch about it afterwards. It's someone else's fault. It's the car company for building an expensive to maintain vehicle, its the credit union for the high loan cost, its the employer for not giving enough money, its the people who told about the vehicle and how they didn't warn... etc.Captain Harlock said:You don't have much money but you do want to buy a 7-series?
No. Is it not a good idea to purchase a used mercedes at that price?Alle_Gory said:Are you kidding me?
'not a good idea' is probably a huge understatement. The thing is going to drain your money like no woman could. For 2k I'd look for a small reliable car. Sure, maybe you look like an idiot, but at least it's a better choice if you don't earn that much money. Don't forget insurance and taxes will also be higher for a Merc not to mention fuel consumption.amoka said:No. Is it not a good idea to purchase a used mercedes at that price?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You don't know me and certainly have not met me before. It is completely inappropriate of you to be calling some you've never met an "idiot". I do not do web battle; hence, do not wish to discuss this matter any further and hope you don't repeat this sort of comment with anybody either here or all other internet forums.Captain Harlock said:maybe you look like an idiot
He never called you an idiot. He said that if you were to drive an older honda or toyota, you might look like an idiot (due to the fact that it is not classy nor a looker). Don't be so quick to jump at people, and try to actually read the entire paragraph before responding.amoka said:Thank you all, including Captain, for their suggestions.
You don't know me and certainly have not met me before. It is completely inappropriate of you to be calling some you've never met an "idiot". I do not do web battle; hence, do not wish to discuss this matter any further and hope you don't repeat this sort of comment with anybody either here or all other internet forums.
Dude, he's pretty spot on. Ever hear the phrase don't buy sh*t you can't afford? You can't afford the car. There's more to vehicles than the initial cost. I can't believe I have to tell you this. Have you even driven or owned a car before?amoka said:You don't know me and certainly have not met me before. It is completely inappropriate of you to be calling some you've never met an "idiot". I do not do web battle; hence, do not wish to discuss this matter any further and hope you don't repeat this sort of comment with anybody either here or all other internet forums.
Actually, I do know the cost of CV joint for this vehicle is much LESS than the same CV joint for my Honda accord and civic. To clarify things, I wanted to buy these cars at the stated price so that I maybe able to work on them myself in the event of problems.Alle_Gory said:Dude, he's pretty spot on. Ever hear the phrase don't buy sh*t you can't afford? You can't afford the car. There's more to vehicles than the initial cost. I can't believe I have to tell you this. Have you even driven or owned a car before?
Do you know how much a freaking simple CV joint costs for a vehicle like this? Look up a couple of parts, then you'll also feel like an idiot besides looking like one.
Or you can simply buy a car that's not been beaten into the ground, and this means less repairs and less money and time spent just making sure its drivable.amoka said:Actually, I do know the cost of CV joint for this vehicle is much LESS than the same CV joint for my Honda accord and civic. To clarify things, I wanted to buy these cars at the stated price so that I maybe able to work on them myself in the event of problems.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.