"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Blind Date

realdeal1963

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Online dating..talk with this male for 3 weeks..lives in Fort Worth..met on date Jan. 29, 2010...we have talked on telephone...I have mailed cards on Valentine, Easter Birthday..he said we would go on a trip..he cancelled..I ask to go and see him in Forth Worth...he says he is tied up for 2 weeks..I like him and want to be intimate..he has never spoke of intimacy..he says I am infatuated with the subject..because I let him know I want to make love...what is your opinion of this relationship..and if it is truly one...I felt hurt by his opinion...wrote him a letter about sexuality and spiritual energy.....I have not talk to him in 3 days...is it over...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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JJaySBK

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f283000 said:
wtf? this is a forum for relationship advice for guys trying to get WOMEN.
Maybe he's a man...



wtf


Uhhh.. he's not interested, and yes, its probably over.
 

JJaySBK

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Yeah, and a female probably wouldn't have realdeal as a username.

So we've come to the conclusion that this is a dude trying to get another dude attracted to him.

My advice, go to a woman-male forum, and get advice from women. Or are you the man in the relationship?


ahhh idk
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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