"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Blind Date

realdeal1963

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Online dating..talk with this male for 3 weeks..lives in Fort Worth..met on date Jan. 29, 2010...we have talked on telephone...I have mailed cards on Valentine, Easter Birthday..he said we would go on a trip..he cancelled..I ask to go and see him in Forth Worth...he says he is tied up for 2 weeks..I like him and want to be intimate..he has never spoke of intimacy..he says I am infatuated with the subject..because I let him know I want to make love...what is your opinion of this relationship..and if it is truly one...I felt hurt by his opinion...wrote him a letter about sexuality and spiritual energy.....I have not talk to him in 3 days...is it over...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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JJaySBK

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f283000 said:
wtf? this is a forum for relationship advice for guys trying to get WOMEN.
Maybe he's a man...



wtf


Uhhh.. he's not interested, and yes, its probably over.
 

JJaySBK

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Yeah, and a female probably wouldn't have realdeal as a username.

So we've come to the conclusion that this is a dude trying to get another dude attracted to him.

My advice, go to a woman-male forum, and get advice from women. Or are you the man in the relationship?


ahhh idk
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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