"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Online dating..talk with this male for 3 weeks..lives in Fort Worth..met on date Jan. 29, 2010...we have talked on telephone...I have mailed cards on Valentine, Easter Birthday..he said we would go on a trip..he cancelled..I ask to go and see him in Forth Worth...he says he is tied up for 2 weeks..I like him and want to be intimate..he has never spoke of intimacy..he says I am infatuated with the subject..because I let him know I want to make love...what is your opinion of this relationship..and if it is truly one...I felt hurt by his opinion...wrote him a letter about sexuality and spiritual energy.....I have not talk to him in 3 days...is it over...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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f283000 said:
wtf? this is a forum for relationship advice for guys trying to get WOMEN.
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Maybe he's a man...



wtf


Uhhh.. he's not interested, and yes, its probably over.
 
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Yeah, and a female probably wouldn't have realdeal as a username.

So we've come to the conclusion that this is a dude trying to get another dude attracted to him.

My advice, go to a woman-male forum, and get advice from women. Or are you the man in the relationship?


ahhh idk
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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