"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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realdeal1963

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Online dating..talk with this male for 3 weeks..lives in Fort Worth..met on date Jan. 29, 2010...we have talked on telephone...I have mailed cards on Valentine, Easter Birthday..he said we would go on a trip..he cancelled..I ask to go and see him in Forth Worth...he says he is tied up for 2 weeks..I like him and want to be intimate..he has never spoke of intimacy..he says I am infatuated with the subject..because I let him know I want to make love...what is your opinion of this relationship..and if it is truly one...I felt hurt by his opinion...wrote him a letter about sexuality and spiritual energy.....I have not talk to him in 3 days...is it over...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JJaySBK

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f283000 said:
wtf? this is a forum for relationship advice for guys trying to get WOMEN.
Maybe he's a man...



wtf


Uhhh.. he's not interested, and yes, its probably over.
 

JJaySBK

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Yeah, and a female probably wouldn't have realdeal as a username.

So we've come to the conclusion that this is a dude trying to get another dude attracted to him.

My advice, go to a woman-male forum, and get advice from women. Or are you the man in the relationship?


ahhh idk
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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