"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Blind Date

realdeal1963

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Online dating..talk with this male for 3 weeks..lives in Fort Worth..met on date Jan. 29, 2010...we have talked on telephone...I have mailed cards on Valentine, Easter Birthday..he said we would go on a trip..he cancelled..I ask to go and see him in Forth Worth...he says he is tied up for 2 weeks..I like him and want to be intimate..he has never spoke of intimacy..he says I am infatuated with the subject..because I let him know I want to make love...what is your opinion of this relationship..and if it is truly one...I felt hurt by his opinion...wrote him a letter about sexuality and spiritual energy.....I have not talk to him in 3 days...is it over...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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JJaySBK

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f283000 said:
wtf? this is a forum for relationship advice for guys trying to get WOMEN.
Maybe he's a man...



wtf


Uhhh.. he's not interested, and yes, its probably over.
 

JJaySBK

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Yeah, and a female probably wouldn't have realdeal as a username.

So we've come to the conclusion that this is a dude trying to get another dude attracted to him.

My advice, go to a woman-male forum, and get advice from women. Or are you the man in the relationship?


ahhh idk
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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