Blackdragon's Summer Time Apporach Journal

[Blackdragon5095]

Thanks bro. That was hard for me man. Those girls rejected me cold. Everytime I think about it. It makes me shake inside. But I know I will be stronger because of it.

 

[losDJ]

out of your element

I noticed a similarity between our abilities to approach women. I don't generally have much of a problem approaching someone, so long as I have a valid excuse or a familiar context (like a party or a classmate), but when I am just approaching some random (but hot) woman in an unfamiliar environment, I seize up like an AFC. Likewise, you seem to do just fine when you are at work and have a reasonable excuse to talk to these women, but you lost your confidence at the mall. It's like we feel we need an excuse to talk to cute girls. But shouldn't the fact that they are cute be reason enough? Like Pook says (paraphrasing), why should we need to apologize for being drawn to something beautiful?

Still, I gotta give you props for at least trying out of your element. I haven't even done that yet...but I will!

 

[Badmannaz]

the thing that got me approaching is i start seeing these guys with these girls and im like "i look so much better than him!!!"

It's like when you start approaching you wanna approach more...pretty cool keep em comin....move for the # close more. I started my approaches with the number close...but then again right now im lookin for someone


great jobb BD

 

[Badmannaz]

May 16,2006

Today wasn't a bad day, I decide to go to the mall. I walk in and I'm shaking in my boots. ( I have timberland boots ) I was so nerves, I went in by myself and with about $20.00 . Fear was pushing me away from appoarching. I told myself again ( I have to apporach ). At least 1 apporach. If I don't apporch then how can I learn ?? I saw 2 girls. 1 fat and other 1 kinda cute ( or so I though ). So I go to apporach.

Me: ( I was nevres as hell ) Hey um I got a question
The girls: Look at each other giving me the "your a loser look" and ketp walking.
Me: ( I won't give up easy )
Me: um what school you go to ?
Uglygirl: ( mumbles something and ketps walking )
Fatgirl: ( ketps walking )
Me: Huh I can't hear you ?
uglygirl: ( mumbles something again )

I just give up from their. They rejected me from the start. I was sweating like hell and I was so nevres to be in the mall alone. I saw this 1 girl and she smiled and I said hi and so did she. ( I'm not gonna count that appoarch).

After this apporach I went out the mall and sat in my car. Feeling like someone hit me with a whip. Man that was a nasty cold shoulder I got. But from pain I will grow stronger.

Deep Thinking:
Oh ok Oh ok. So it wasn't as easy as I though to be in the mall and too apporach in the mall. What I will do is start eatting in the mall. So are my plan of breaking stupid fears.

1. Go to the mall more often alone
2. Eat at the mall ( I'll get more used to it )
3. Gain self-control
4. Get used to talking to people in the mall

27/100

Way to go!! my 1st one was the mall approach...i walked in with $6.00 and i walked in confident...i've noticed it plays a HUGE ROLL in approaching i was dressed to impress also....

 

[Blackdragon5095]

May 17, 2006

I been thinking about the cold shoulder I got. I'm feeling better now and getting over it. Today I had to work at my 2nd Job. As I was walking into the building I saw this hb7 coming my way with her mother. I think I seen her before but I never apporached her. When we get in and start doing the job. I walk over. I first open the mother then the daughter.
First I help them pick something up and then I open.

Me: you could give me a tip for helping you with that ( smile )
Mother: lol
Hb7: ( gives a blank look )
Me: you 2 work for ELS ?
Mother: yes
Me: whats your names ?
Mother: mother
Hb7: Hb7

We talk a little. I give up the hb7. No fun. She bearly smiles or laughs at all. ( how boring )
I realize it's time to change up the apporach here. It's becoming all the same. I would like to ketp apporaching and find a girl who interested by 1 guy who said this is right.

Jyeah thats all Cool Blackdragon,
Now try something A LIL different and see how it works.

instead of asking females things,try TELLING THEM what to do, but in a nice way.Its called Auto Suggestion, it happens all the time everyday,

So, Instead of asking to ask a quetsion, you can just ask it, but before that

Just act like you are...The Police, and say,
"Hey Come Here for a second,"
"Whats your name?" Tell them yours then say "nice meeting You" and walk away.

No Phone #s, No email addys
No other ?s, just whats above, and practice only that, if not, you are givig yourself too much to think about and thats where you are running into problems.

Just Like Anything Else Bro
Start with Baby Steps before you Sprint.

Just Practice doing Just that.
Say.." Hey Stop"
or
"Hold Up a Second"

if they do, or WHEN they do, youll begin to see that they already are programmed to do as they are told.Try it, and keep at it.

S2thaP

I'm gonna change it up. Try something new.

28/100

 

[Charm]

Let me get this right.

Asking. Questions like ,
What you do today
Did you used to play basketball ?
What this stuff ( make up question )

Cause small talk right ?

So I need to ask questions like this ?
What would you do if you saw me stealing girl make up ?
Hey, I have a quick question. Do you travel alot
( if a girl says yes )
What the best place you been ( have the topic around their right ? )
( if she says no )
Where would you like to go and why ?

Right. You need to drive deeper and deeper rapport with your questions. Rather than just "fluffy" simple questions, try for questions that require more complicated answers.

Here's an example of NLP you might try sometime.

You: Hey i'm blackdragon.. I gots a question for ya
Hi: Oh hi.. sure what is it?
You: A friend of mine and I were talkin abouts who could come up with the most romantic evening. I suggested "horseback riding on the beach at sunset" but she said that was cheesy... what do you think? (wait for response)

Try that one sometime and post results. It's a strong opener because you suggest to her that you and a girl were talking about romantic dates (you set the tone), and that she said a very romantic suggestion was cheasy (no girl in her right mind would say that is a cheesy date). So basically you are setting the "bait and hook".

You can follow this up by:
You: Can you think of a more romantic date?
Her: Blah blah blah.. blah
You: Haha. That's cheesy (no matter what she says).
Her: You're such a jerk!
You: Hey! I'm willing to give your romantic date a chance. Let me get your numbers.

This way, you throw back at her, the same neg that the girl from your story threw at you... Fun times man!

 

[Blackdragon5095]

That post was very useful.
I think I'm getting it.

Me: Hey I'm Blackdragon, Can I ask you a question ?
Hb7: hi... sure
Me: I'm going to this job interview and I need a good suit. I don't wanna come in looking like a crackhead.
Me: Then they would call the crackhead portal.
Hb7: LOL
hb7: blah blah blah
( she would help me out and could talk about jobs )

 

[Charm]

Exactly.

Me: "I dont want to look like I work at KFC! Not that Im sayin I dont like me some fried chicken once in a while."
Her: LOL
Me: "What, you got somethin against fried chicken?"
Her: No
Me: "Good. You, me, KFC, 7pm tomorrow. You can work your way up to McDonalds if you're a good girl"
Her: LOL
Me: (Break into real convo here)

 

[Blackdragon5095]

May 19, 2006

Again I will try harder to push myself. I did try some different apporaches today and I was nerves as hell of doing them.

I saw this girl in my lane. She looked pretty cute. So I tired to chat her up.

Me: Hey can I ask you something ( nevres )
Cutegirl: yeah
Cutegirl: ( pays and leaves )

I should have speaked up. Or did a stack opener oh well. I'll try harder next time...

29/100

Again I saw this girl. She looked pretty hot until I got close ( too much make up, she loses points) She went from a hb8 to a hb6.9 ( I don't like it when girls have too much make up on their face ).

Me: Whats your name ?? ( nevres as hell )
Hb6.9: Hb6.9 ( smiling)
Me: What do you think of this store ( I'm sweating like hell )
Hb6.9: ( feels me getting neveres and feels neveres too ) what do you mean....
Me: um... do you think it's good or bad ?
Hb6.9: Oh you mean krogers ? Yeah it's ok
Me: I was just wondering ( I was so neveres )

I didn't close well ethier just way to nevers. I need more self-control.
30/100

I don't know why I was getting all nevres about using new openers. Maybe it was a long day. Ugh I though I had this fear under control. Boy was I wrong. Man this is gonna take a long time to get rid of this nevres around women.

Deep Thinking:
I just have to ketp apporaching really guys. And learn more self-control. I will continue to use new openers. And I will do the opener Scotty and charm told me to do. I'm gonna need to pratice more infront of a mirror at doing this. I'm happy I'm using a new opener. Just not happy I'm so stiff up around women.

I feel as if I'm losing my confidence ??

30/100

 

[Boschy]

I think you need more DJ/PUA theory under your belt. It's like public speaking: the better you know your stuff, the smoother your presentation will be. Read all of the DJ and PUA literature you can find, then re-read the most significant tips. Read books like The Game by Neil Strauss (a quick read despite being 450 pages) and other motivational self-help books. You're attempting to build a house without the right tools.

Also, do some reading about the biological reasons for why people feel nervous. It will demistify your irrational terror of women and strangers in general. Defining a problem in rational terms is the first step to overcoming it.

I'd like to see progress in these areas rather than 70 more approach reports where you crash and burn.

 

[chickenlegs03]

I didn't close well ethier just way to nevers. I need more self-control...
30/100...
...I feel as if I'm losing my confidence ??

I know you probably think I shouldn't be giving advice as I just started my approach journal...but I'm not quite the beginner you may think...I've just been waaay out of practice and rusty lately. (In otherwords, this isn't psuedo, keyboard-jockey advice - I'd done close to a hundred or more approaches in the past)

Anyway, point being...progress is gradual. Keep at it. It took me over a year to get completely comfortable with approaches and being social...and now I'm dealing with what happens when you stop practicing. It seems like you're doing great so far. As far as the nervousness...I did a few things to get over it.

1) Questioned my fear. What did I really fear? It came down to being afraid of what people would think if I was rejected in front of a lot of people...basically I was mostly afraid of 'what other people think.'
2) Create the most fearful situation for myself based on that definition, and go at it, full-force. So, I started doing approach after approach in very crowded places, like school dining halls/cafeterias, classes, etc. Just facing my worst possible fear of being rejected in front of lots of people watching. Sure, I f'd up plenty of times...but that's the point...because like you said, otherwise "I wouldn't learn anything."
3) Put myself in the moment. Be where you are and not in your head. Focus on what the girl is saying, what she's wearing, don't be afraid to let her catch you checking her out...just be smooth and be in the moment. Don't worry about saying the right thing or saying anything at all. Confidence is key.

4) Here's another idea...step out of your comfort zones...do things you normally don't do. Study in different places. Be around people and social situations more often. Don't just go somewhere for approaches...change your lifestyle so that you have more opportunities to approach all the time. For example, tomorrow I'll be dragging myself to B&N to study...it would be easier to stay home (my comfort zone)...but would I get an opportunity to approach at home..no. But at the same time, I'm not going "to approach," I'm going to study...but if it arises, then I will. But you just have to put yourself in situations where it will...and that way, at least, imo, it's much easier to start conversations because you're not out with the sole purpose of approaching...ya know?

I'm just getting back into these things myself...but fortunately, when you've possessed them before, getting them back is not as hard, as I feel it coming back already in the few approaches I've done...just need more practice with holding flirtatious conversations again (I tend to go too serious sometimes).

I hope that helps :rockon:

 

[Blackdragon5095]

Thank you Chickenlegs. I want everyone to feel free to give me advice. Even if I give advice.

I really do need the support.

I shouldn't have said that. " I feel I'm losing my confidnce "

These quotes got me really thinking and their from the batman movie I watched tonight.

Alfred ~ Why do we fall? So we can learn to pick ourselves up.

Henri Ducard ~ You traveled the world... Now you must journey inwards... to what you really fear... it's inside you... there is no turning back. Your parents' death was not your fault. Your training is nothing.
The will is everything. If you make yourself more than just a man, if you devote yourself to an ideal, you become something else entirely. Are you ready to begin?

 

[Charm]

Even though you're scared, that doesn't mean you shouldn't push through that fear. You MUST push through the fear to grow and become more confident. I've watched handsome guys get nervous in front of girls who were only hb6's. And there's UG dudes who pick up hotties with charm and enthusiasm alone. You gotta embody those ideals.

 

[Blackdragon5095]

May 20, 2006

The last point I said. " I felt like I was losing my confidence ". I though about all the apporaches I did. Then it hit me in the head. I was taking it way too seriously. Shezz was right. Apporaching should be fun. Not something that you should put your whole life on. Look at me guys. Take a good look. I allmost half way through my 100 apporach goal. And may isn't even over yet. Everday I wonder. Where will I be at the 100th apporach ?? Maybe I'm still be a little nerves. Or maybe I'll be better at rapport ? All I know is that I won't quit even after 100.....
I feel that some people think that when I do the over 70 apporches I will not change. I say they are wrong.

Things I have learned by doing this journal
What Inner game and Outer game is.
Smile more
What rapport is
Different kinds of openers gives different kinds of results
Not to take apporaching so serious
More confidence ( takes to cold shoulder, rejection and b!tch shields )
Pushing the convo

Well enought talk down to the apporach

I saw this 1 cute girl coming out and I was pushing carts. I went in for the apporach.
Me: Hey can I see those pictures ?
Cutegirl: Sure
Me: whats your name ?
Cutegirl: cutegirl
( Look at the paper with the pictures on it and It has a sticker on it. I didn't rip it off because I don't want the pictures flying everywhere )
Me: what are they for
Cutegirl: a project
Me: about what ( pushing the convo )
Cutegirl: A project on my life
Me: Oh that's gonna be long ( it's gonna be about drama, I don't even wanna hear it )

I ended it their and said good luck. I don't wanna hear about women's drama.

31/100

After realizing that I was taking apporaching seriously. I felt myself begin to change. To quit pu$$ying out and just go in and do it. I got nothing to lose. I see this blonde girl in a car. I first fear tired to stop me but I went in.

Me: ( I knock on her window )
Hb7 Blonde: ( rolls her window down )
Me: Whats your name ? ( I don't believe [ using flows apporach ])
Hb7 Blonde: Hb7 ( gives me who the f### are you look )
Me: ( Whoa this girl must be in a bad mood )
She had work clothes on and wasn't looking very happy
Me: I was wondering what you was doing
Me: I gonna watch out for people trying to look in cars, trying to steal stuff
Hb7 Blonde: ( she lightens up ) Oh I'm gonna go in soon
Me: Ok


Man that was a cold shoulder and after nasty rejection. ( Ouch !!! )

32/100

Funny stuff:

Ok I was gonna apporach this girl until I hear her talking to someone else. SHE SOUNDED LIKE A DUDE !!!!!!! I was gonna apporach her
AHHHHHHHHHH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She could have a d!ck too AHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
Thank god I didn't

This 1 happen later doing the day

I was pushing a cart and doing picked up some basket. I was next to the basket line where you put the baskets back up at.
Me: Put this up for me ( no excuse me or please, I'm such a jerk )
Girl: ( looks at me )
Me: here ( I'm being a jerk agian )
Girl: ( Takes it and gives the " I'll give in look " ) :yes:

AHhh another confidence boost

Anyway.

To Charm:
I gotta push harder and I feel my inner strenght growing. And Charm I will do your apporach. Don't think I forgotten. I got a idea how to do it on the job without looking like a psyhco.


Deep Thinking:
I didn't let that cold shoulder ruin my day. I made some jokes to my friend at the job and even forgot about it.
32/100

 

[Blackdragon5095]

A new day for new confidence

May 21, 2006

I wake up with new confidence. AHhh what a wonder feeling !!!! A belt broke in my car so I had to drive my lil bro's car. I get to work and I step out of the car. I feel like million bucks. I told myself ( today we try my new opener ) I do a warm up apporach so I get back in the feel of apporaching girls. This 1 dosen't count.

I see a girl hitting another girl ( they are playing and they were laughing )
Me: no fighting here ( new confidence )
uglygirl: Lol
hb6: lol
Me: this isn't a boxing ring now ( new confidence )
uglygirl and hb6: lol

Today no more warm ups down to the apporaching and learning.
I see this 1 girl she drops off her friend drives around and parks to the side of the building. She is a blonde. This girl is wearing a skit and has her cell phone between her legs ( oooooo ), her face is ok but her body is smoking. She also has a tight shirt on ( oh yeah ).

Me: I seen you before
Hb8 blonde: huh ?
Me: I seen you before ( gives the confuse look )
Hb8 Blonde: ( gives me the " who are you " look )
Me: whats your name ?
Hb8 Blonde: hb8
Me: I saw you stealing something before
Hb8 Blonde: ( gives me a shock look )
Hb8 blonde: no I didn't
Me: you know stealing is wrong ? right ?
Hb8 blonde: I don't steal seriously ( wow ass kissing and neg hit hehehe )
Me: I just joking
Me: You should have seen the look on your face
Me: ( I start laughing some ) ( I'm being such a jerk )
Hb8 Blonde: ( she laughs with me out of embarassment )
Me: You look like you are gonna have a heart attack
Hb8 Blonde: lol
Me: your not gonna die are you ?
Hb8 Blonde: lol No
Me: You have a nice day ok
Hb8 blonde: lol I will

I left because she ketp doing that annoying ass laugh. She would open her mouth and go haha. My new apporach isn' too bad but it might come off as scaring the girl too much. Maybe I can switch up. I'll do more testing.


I saw another girl she sorta cute but I swear she looked like she was 13. Anyway I see her opening up her car. I go in.

Me: You drive ? ( new confidence )
Cutegirl: Yeah
Me: whats your name
cutegirl: cutegirl
Me: how old are you ?
Cutegirl: 19
Me: I though you was 13, trying to drive a car
Me: I was about to say !!! Wtf !!1
Cutegirl: lol
Cutegirl: how old are you
Me: 20

After that I forgot what we talked about. I didn't close good but again I like my new confidence.

It was later today. I see 2 girls walking out. They are sisters and the younger and smaller 1 is pushing a full of stuff. So I walk up. The younger sister will be 12 because she looked 12 and the older sister will be 14 because she look 14. I though she was older until I got closer.

Me: she making you push that stuff
12: lol yeah
Me: lets have a little talk ( push the cart for her )
Me: you can't let your older sister push you around ( neg hit on the 14 )
14: lol
12: lol
Me: you gotta stand up
Me: if she picking on you, call me up, I'll set her staight
12: lol yeah
14: lol

We get the car and 12 says thanks for helping me and bye. Time out !! Lmao this little girl thinks she can boss me around. LMAO !!!!! a 12 year old cut me off of my apporach. She must be crazy.

Me: whats your name
14: 14
12: 12 ( I wasn't even talking to her )
Me: don't be messing with your younger sister
14: lol
Me: do you drive ?
14: no ( smiles at me )
Me: for a second their I though you did ( I realize she must be 14 ) and ( I smile back)
Me: you 2 have a nice day
12 and 14: You too

As I walk away I see their mother coming towards me and she smiles at me.
This will count as 1 apporach because I had no intentions of apporaching some 12 year old.

Later today. I was outside. A car drives by I see this really cutegirl. She smiles at me. ( think whoa this girl allmost looks like angel ( I doubt she is ). I go in and I was bagging and I see her agian. She smiles at me and I smile back ( whoa I must not be as ugly as I though I was ). I see her come back in and go to the photo lab. I go up tell myself I can do this.

Me: can I help you ? ( idoit. Now she thinks I'm not interested. Damn it )
Extra cutegirl: yeah my pictures aren't loading
Me: go to the guy over their
Extra cutegirl: ok

I'm not counting this apporach because I could have done better. I gotta pratice apporaching the hb9 and extra cute girls.

Overall:
Today I have new confidence, less nerveness and more pushing.
I felt smooth.

35/100

 

[Blackdragon5095]

May 26, 2006

You guys though I gave up. Please people, this warrior ain't going no where. It's been a while since I apporached a girl so I did a warm up apporach. Warm up apporaches get me back the feeling of apporching a girl. I also pratice a little in front of the mirror. This really works and helps me work on my body language.

I was bagging and I saw this hb7. She had brown hair.

Me: Can you bring me that basket
Hb7: ( brings me the basket )
Me: Can you put it up for me ?
Hb7: ( gose to put it up for me )
Me: I'm was just joking
Hb7: I don't mind ( smiling)
Me: Naw thats ok ( smiling back )
Me: Whats your name ?
hb7: hb7
Me: well hb7 I don't wanna get fired
Me: my manger would go. ( talks like a manger ) how can you get customers putting stuff up for you. Do your job, working the customers. Who do you think you are.
Hb7: lol
Me: I could get fired
Hb7: lol I really don't mind
Me: thats ok
Me: or do you want me to get fired ?
Hb7: no
Me: aren't you gonna say sry
Hb7: lol
Me: oh I see, your a bad girl hb7. ( leans back some )
Me: you allmost get me fired and now you ain't gonna say sry.
Hb7: lol Sry
Me: it's all cool

( I went over to the other line and started bagging )
( I use a stacked opener)

Me: what school you go to
Hb7: blah blah ( I forgot what she said )
Me: where is it ?
Hb7: blah blah
hb7: blah blah
Me: I think I know where that is
( her mother pays and she smiles at me as they leave )
Hb7: bye ( smiles )
Me: have a good day ( smiles )

I should have done some kino and tried some rapport ( I'm still reading about it )
I was also a little nevreous but I did ok

36/100

I was on break and was buying something. Infront of me is this cute girl. She had to be 18 maybe 19 because I saw her driving a car.

Me: you do sports don't ya
Hb7: yeah
Me: what kind
Hb7: blah blah blah ( once again I forgot what she said )

Sorry guys forgot what we were talking about but it didn't go well. I end up not asking for the name or doing a close. I wasn't thinking

37/100

Overall:
I'll ketp apporaching until I get better. I learn as I go.

37/100

 

[chickenlegs03]

dude, that bagging approach was pretty good.

i think you could've kino'd by gently *punching* her on the shoulder or pushing her when she didn't say sorry. though, i haven't approached in the past 2 days, so i can't be saying much.

 

[Blackdragon5095]

Yeah I should have done that.

I'm getting used to going up and talking to girls. 1 guy on another fourm told me to go up and do auto-suggestion, ask for the name and then say nice meeting you and walk away.
I would learn how to boss girls around. ( Which I sorta already do )
But it won't be very fun ethier. Shezz is right, :yes:
Apporaching should be fun, come on we are apporaching harmless girls. Alot of people try to come up with shortcuts how to get better faster. The only way to get better at this stuff is to just ketp apporaching until we get used to it and gain self-control. Come on, I mean I haven't apporached for about 19 years. What people expect my mind to go. ( ok lets get used to apporaching now ) NO it don't work like that. It slowly gets used to it as you do it over and over.

once again thanks chickenlegs and feel free to give advice.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

nice approach man...U seriously gotta start closing because these chicks sound ripe for the picking, lol

 

[Blackdragon5095]

May 27, 2006

I have 1 thing to say. It is getting HOT !!!!!!!!!!!
I felt good and smooth again.

I was pushing carts and bang I saw this girl, hb7. She was out of nowhere I had to chat her up

Me: looks like you live here ( her stuff was all over this table for display ( wtf ?? )
hb7: lol
Me: this isn't your house you know ( feeling smooth with new confidence )
Hb7: lol
Me: so whats your name ?
Hb7: hb7
Me: well hb7, I hope you cleaned your mess up because I ain't doing it
hb7: lol

Oh ok, not the best but at least I apporached. I didn't see her until I came in the store. I need to be more ready but hey, I learn as I go ??

38/100

Double apporach

I saw these 2 girls. 1 had booty shorts and the over didn't. This is how it's gonna work
the girl with the booty shorts will be hb7 1 and the other 1 will be hb7 2. Remember guys I have new smooth confidence and much better control over myself with better body language. Also alot of smiling.
Now b!t(h shields.

Me: ( I walk up the window, again with my new smooth confidence )
Me: ( I knock on the window and smiles )
Hb7 2: AHHHHH
Me: Lol ( we all started laughing because hb7 2 got scraed
Hb7 2: opens the door
Me: I hope I didn't give you heart attack
Me: I don't wanna go to jail for killing someone ( joking )
Hb7 2: lol no you scared me
Me: so whats your name ? ( smiling )
Hb7 2: hb7 ( smiling )
Me: whats your friends name ?
Hb7 1: hb7

I forgot what we talked about but I do remember this part

Hb7 2: whats your name
hb7 2: ( sees my name tag )
hb7 2: oh your blackdragon
Me: ( I cover my name tag )
Me: Now you wasn't supposed to see that
Hb7 2: lol
hb7 1: lol

again I forgot what happen after that

Me: well I'm gonna let you 2 go
Me: have a nice day girls
hb7 1: you too
hb7 2: have a nice day

Overall:
Good apporach !!!!! I could have gotten a hug from both of them, but I was sweating from the heat and it's not cool to hug girls when your sweating ( you will be saying hello to b!t(h, I dare you to try )

40/100

The only reason I'm gonna count this as a apporach because
1. I love this new confidence I have
2. I was like the king or something ??
3. The girl did everything I said

I see this girl, we will call her Uglygirl because she didn't look good at all. Their was some guy their too maybe a friend or father. ( He was older ) maybe a uncle.

Me: ( see her with a cart )
Me: bring that cart to me
uglygirl: (brings to the cart to me)
Me: and don't hit the cars because the people who drive them will be pissed
Me: ( talks like I'm mad because someone hit my car) wtf ? who hit my car, I'm gonna sue them
uglygirl: lol
Me: I can't pay for the damage you do to the cars
uglygirl: lol
guy: why not ? ( trying to test my confidence, nice try )
Me: because I don't have to money and I didn't hit their car ( with new confidence, feeling smooth )
uglygirl: ( gets neveres and slowly pushs the cart to me between 2 cars as I stand their feeling like I'm the king)
Me: good job, you passed your driver's test
uglygirl: lol

overall:
The only reason I count this apporach, because I was the king in it. ( I will get better at doing this too )

41/100

Double apporach
I saw these 2 girls. They both came and sat on these kids seats. Once agian. Using good body language and smooth confidence. I felt like if I was the king again.. After getting close to them they were kinda young. Maybe 15 or 16. They laughed alot and very silly too.
The 1 with the brown hair will be brown girl and the blonde will be blond girl. I prefer the blonde girl because she looked better. The brown girl ( she wasn't black ) looked like a tooth pick.

Me: ( walk up with a " what are you 2 doing look ")

The girls stand up as if the king came in the room and it was rude to be sitting when the king came in.
If you guys were their these girls standed up very fast.

Girls: LOL
Me: oh please you can sit in the chairs
Me: feel free to sit in them
blonde: lol
brown: lol
( agian silly girls )
Me: so whats your names
blonde: lol blonde
brown: lol brown
( they walk away and but I don't give in so easily and I forgot what we were talking about )
I remember this

Me: so which 1 of you is the bad influence
brown: I go to church every sunday
( the girls laugh )
Me: ( with my new confidence) I think your the bad influence
blonde: she is
Me: well you have to ignore her or she will have you in jail or beat up by other girls for talking smack
brown: lol
blonde: lol

( In the end, didn't go well, brown was the queen bee. These 2 girls were like pepper and salt. Didn't far from each other. The queen rejected me so the blonde had to rejecte me too.
If I had a wingman, we could have split the 2 girls and ketp them from working together to rejecting us. But it was just me. Again silly girls )

43/100

I got apporached today, well sorta....

I saw this 1 hot girl trying to her car. Before I could say anything she said something to me.

Hb8: I'm so stupid at times

And their gose my apporach. ( Takes a dollar bill and throws it in the trash can )
I hate when girls have to say something first to me. BECAUSE THEN I CAN'T COUNT THE APPORACH. ( thanks b!t(h )

Me: ( I act like a cop and help her park )
Me: their you go
Hb8: lol
Me: can you put this up for me ( feeling like a king agian )
Hb8: sure ( takes it )
Me: ( I take it back ) I'm just joking
Me: why do you girls do that ?
Hb8: blah blah ( I forgot what she said )
Me: ok then well here ( I and her the bag to throw away )
Hb8: ( takes it and throws it away for me )
WTF !!!!!!????? I just met her
Me: thanks for throwing the bag away for me
Hb8: lol no problem
Me: maybe you could take me home ( wrong move, I wasn't thinking )
Me: because I have gas problems ( too close, at least I fixed it up some )
Hb8: blah blah ( told me where she lived and stuff )
Me: whats your name ?
Hb8: hb8
Me: well hb8 a have a nice day
Hb8: you too

I can't count this but oh well

Jerk Time:
Lately this co-worker of my ( a girl )
Be trying to act tough to me. So it's take to cut here down to size
( I saw her and we begin to talk and head to the lockers )
Me: so whats up with this new attudie of yours
Girl: oh I like being mean
Me: oh really ? you think you can say what w/e you want
Me: ( put my hand on the a locker and ketp her from leaving, leaving her trapped)
Me: ( she knows I'm playing, so don't think I'm threating her )
Me: I don't like this new attuide stuff of yours
Girl: blah blah ( beings to explain )
Me: I see
Me: well this new you has to go ( strong eye contact and again joking )
Girl: lol ok
Me: ( I remove my hand from the locker to let her go )
Me: I'll let you go this time but that new you has to go
Girl: w/e lol and ~walks away~

Ahhh I felt like a king.

I heard this girl said she kiss a guy. She was talking to another girl, again co-worker.
Later that day I came back up to her to tease her about. It's quite funny.

Me: So did you kiss him with tongue ?
Girl: noo
Me: well I like to kiss girls ( LOL )
Girl: ( gives me the " your crazy " Look )
Me: thier's a book on kissing people
Me: you should check it out
Girl: w/e lol

Fun fun.



Overall:
Good day, I got $3.00 in tips for helping people and a good double apporach.
I felt smooth and like a king. I losed the feeling when I got tired.
I have to say, my convo skills are improved and are getting longer. I'm getting closer to 50 apporaches. I'm getting alot more self-control, but I feel like I just missing hints of interest and moves to do kino. So I need to work on paying attention again. Don't worry guys after this jouney I will be doing another 1. So don't think I'm gonna quit.

43/100