Agreed that everyone seeks validation. And I agree that he is ultimately free to do as he pleases, with whom he pleases, within the confines of everyone else's liberty. However, it does sometimes come across as bragging and validation seeking. Seeking validation is natural, but only to an extent. I also question the amount of money he spends, 'making girls fall in love with him' (his own words, above). But, that's a conversation he and I have had many times, and again, it's his choice. All I do here is try to help him understand the consequences of his actions and the nature of the company he keeps.But 99% of people seek validation, in one form or another. The difference is BN is upfront about it
or she could be sugar daddy hunting. Girls who work in strip clubs tend to see men as wallets. Some work a short game, some work a long game. And most see "sex" as a means to an end, or at the very least, something as little value. It might not mean the same to them as you might like to imagine.No, this girl last night is husband hunting and I got the third degree. "What do you do? Any kids? Ever married? Where do you live? Can I visit? How tall are you? You have great skin and eyes. You have great genes."
First off, Neil, I'm always impressed with the company of the ladies you keep. Props, jealous, but props. Had I not been stupid enough to get into a bad marriage contract that I'm in right now, I could be just like you. Mad at myself constantly but hey, we all make choices in life. Bottom line, you have something they want, money, fame, ability to push them up the social ladder, whatever, you're going to be reeling them in. Too many guys, myself included, let themselves get knocked off track and taken away from the way an actual relationship should work, women working just as hard as their man to make a relationship a satisfying experience for both. When it doesn't, you move on and that's the position you're in. Some may call it glorified prostitution but after many years of a frustrating marriage, that's all marriage really is, just modern society removed the incentive for the woman to actively participate in keeping the marriage quality livable for the man. So now it's a one way prostitution in favor of the woman. Maybe it is simply women getting back for the all the time when the power was more in favor of the man but hey, two wrongs don't make a right.By the grace of God, last week on my birthday I ran into a girl (turning 22) who I was with last September when I picked up my last girlfriend (there were actually three girls at the time, all equally hot). I hadn't seen her since. She asked me my birthday on my birthday and I answered "today".
Less than a week later I already got a date, and tonight I actually got to ask her "What do you remember about the day we met (she watched me seduce my last girlfriend)?" and she said "I thought you were a genius because I never met anyone who knew numbers like you, and Caroline was ALL OVER you!"
Perhaps because I was prequalified, this girl seems to love me even more than the last girl. What do you think?
or she could be sugar daddy hunting. Girls who work in strip clubs tend to see men as wallets. Some work a short game, some work a long game. And most see "sex" as a means to an end, or at the very least, something as little value. It might not mean the same to them as you might like to imagine.
Have to disagree with you on this one Neil, I don't think it matters much how well you f*ck them. It may matter in the moment and from time to time but women mostly see this as a way of manipulating a man. I think women simply see relationships and sex is a way of getting a relationship, as a way to manipulate you for their needs. They're pissed at you this week? Doesn't matter how well you f*ck them, you're either not getting any and/or they're going to f*ck someone else. You don't meet their monetary needs? Doesn't matter how well you f*ck them, you're either not getting any and/or they're going to f*ck someone else. Your only strategy is to keep them on a short leash.
- Ok, but any woman with any man might be secretly using him. In the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make. Women vote with their feet. If she is with you, she chose you. Maybe it's because you worked 2 jobs and gave her half. Maybe it's because you f*ck her harder than anyone else. They vote with their feet.
- Who cares what they want as long as we get what we want?
- I love how some men here celebrate pimps and say "Oh yeah? The guy who let you f*ck his girl for $300 is laughing right now!!". The joke is on him.
- I have 30 years of dating experience. When a girl is beautiful, sweet, eager, romantic, punctual, affectionate and attracted (and half my age), that is worth something. Fat old women my age just aren't the same, even if they love me for me (they don't).
WTF are you talking about? That was our first date. I've dated 40 girls who were strippers (and 120 who were not). In 2017, they are the same. This isn't 1991. The video is literally the very first minute that either of us saw eachother outside of the strip club where we met. Oneitis?? You sound like Dr. Pepper. Can you not read body language, doctor?
Fallen short by a score of 99 to 98?
This was our first photo shoot, it was outdoors, she wasn't dressed up, and my camera battery died so I had to use my phone. The other girl did 20+ photo shoots, so give this girl a chance. She has real boobs, isn't married, and is 7 inches taller.
Appearances matter and people judge you based on your photos a lot in today's generation, society is shallow, deal with it.She's hotter than the last one I saw to be fair. Nice work.
What I think the concern is Neil, is your insistence on using this ridiculous photo-feeler nonsense. I mean, gauging 'smarts and trustworthiness' from a photo...? Man, you yourself are clearly smarter than that.
The validation you seek from these ratings is clearly filling a void in your own self confidence. And I think that's what concerns people here. You don't (shouldn't) need to pay people on the internet to rate your girlfriends to make yourself feel good; being with them and appreciating their value yourself is ideally enough for that.
I stopped at 5 - this is why we have Photofeeler, because certain members here take their own personal opinions so seriously that they genuinely think they can declare a woman's rating.She 's à 5
Because you can't stand seeing hot women?I unclicked "ignore bigneil" to see his post as I was curious. Then I immediately realized why I blocked him.
Like dude learn how to capitalize. You text like a 12 year old black girl.like dude are we supposed to be impressed your taking pictures of these chicks? i mean come on really, show us some selfies with the hoe in the bedroom and you would get worshipped around here. this is like bragging about talking to a girl at the bar or how betas come on here saying oh this girl looked at me today im so alpha. get the fuk out
I don't mean to pick on you, but she is a full time office worker who strips 2 nights a week at a 5 star club.I don't mean to pick on you, but this women is a stripper. As such her body is a commodity and if men want her around they will have to pay.
That girl is smoking hot. 96.4% of the forum wouldn't even have enough balls to make eye contact with her let alone talk to her.I stopped at 5
They rate the photo as smart, not the girl. The smart and trustworthy scores are to prevent upskirt shots and keep them classy.68% of people thought she looked smart? She's a blonde chick! What kind of rating system is this??
A blonde walks into a hair salon wearing headphones. The stylist says "can you please take the head phones off so I can cut your hair?"68% of people thought she looked smart? She's a blonde chick! What kind of rating system is this??
Come on my man. She is a stripper. That's like saying "she's not a druggie....she only shoots up twice a week".I don't mean to pick on you, but she is a full time office worker who strips 2 nights a week at a 5 star club.
You think that's bad? My body is a commodity that old men have to pay to use to put in a cubicle and spend hours touching dirty keyboard keys covered in bacteria from male virgins writing software.
I've found that girls who are hot enough that they are paid for their body tend to have hotter bodies.