Westminster
Senior Don Juan
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26 years.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Biggest age difference you have attracted and bedded repeatedly?
- Thread starter 2Rocky
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Giovanni SouthSide
Master Don Juan
thats right. these hxes at the gym are open season.
BackInTheGame78
Moderator
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23 and still going currently
Interested in hearing more about your look/style for this. My sister's friends are all 12 years younger than me and every time I hung out with them, all were giving me looks. From when they were 17, and I was 29, even up to now when they're 23 and I'm 35.
I've always been under the impression that for mid 30s to pull much younger you have to be basically at the apex.. which is what I'm shooting for.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Fortune_favors_the_bold
Master Don Juan
All my girlfriends after my late 20s have always been around 10 yrs younger than me.
Even in my early 20s I was mostly dealing with late teenage girls.
I'm not capable of being attracted from older women or even women my own age.
Right now in my late 30s I would rather bang an average 20yrs old girl than a hottie in her 30s.
Even in my early 20s I was mostly dealing with late teenage girls.
I'm not capable of being attracted from older women or even women my own age.
Right now in my late 30s I would rather bang an average 20yrs old girl than a hottie in her 30s.
soulforge
Master Don Juan
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Nice work.
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
Master Don Juan
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I dated a 45 year old as a 22 year old, she gave me like 10k a month in "walk around money" consistently until I chose to leave after she cheated, did so to maintain respect and I retained her respect to this day, not that it matters since I'm not dating a woman in her late 50s
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
EndlessNameless
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 9, 2023
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I pulled an 18 yo when I was 31. I stayed ten years with her.
Doctor Europeo
Moderator
Her prime years. My man!
EndlessNameless
Don Juan
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Yes bro
But it took me two years to recover after she left me.
SpartanWarrior77
Master Don Juan
Im 28 and have stomach pangs when I think about my 30s. I feel like I already missed the ball. I know this delusion bc im attempting a perfect life. But tell me, being in ur 50s, is sex enjoyable and fun? Are u confident or do u still suffer from the same level of intensity when it comes to fear and insecurity? Also tell me my old friend, how is ur attitude in general in terms of optimism regarding the future? I already suffer from a cynicism that makes the future look bleak like staring at a rotten piece of cake with maggots with no other food in the fridge. When I was in my early 20s, god the excitement with which id get up in the morning, now all of that seems like a golden era already gone into the abyss of time...
SpartanWarrior77
Master Don Juan
How did u pull it off? Are u well off? Sometimes i feel like having ur **** together in the west and having the car/clothes/crib combo is attractive in a fantasy type of way for women...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Macadellic
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 1, 2021
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@SpartanWarrior77
She works at a place I frequent.
She always greeted me kindly and enthusiastically.
I mind myself, doing what I’m there to do and leave.
It took months to have our first conversation because I’m not going out of my way to chase.
Our first conversation happened organically where she told me she hadn’t seen me in weeks and how funny how she was thinking of me and now I’m here
Got her phone number right then and there.
Set up a date and fast forward she is my plate.
This entire time she made an assessment of me.
This is what women do.
They listen to the words that come out of your mouth and they will observe your behavior.
Yes they will look at external factors like what resources you have but if you are not happy with yourself and the life you have built then why would they want to come join you
She works at a place I frequent.
She always greeted me kindly and enthusiastically.
I mind myself, doing what I’m there to do and leave.
It took months to have our first conversation because I’m not going out of my way to chase.
Our first conversation happened organically where she told me she hadn’t seen me in weeks and how funny how she was thinking of me and now I’m here
Got her phone number right then and there.
Set up a date and fast forward she is my plate.
This entire time she made an assessment of me.
This is what women do.
They listen to the words that come out of your mouth and they will observe your behavior.
Yes they will look at external factors like what resources you have but if you are not happy with yourself and the life you have built then why would they want to come join you
SpartanWarrior77
Master Don Juan
@Macadellic yeah man, I like that. It sounds like the perfect seduction. Simple, smooth and slow. Is she just a plate or do u see more of a connection developing? Hows her maturity?
