"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Biggest age difference you have attracted and bedded repeatedly?

Biggest age difference with a woman younger than you?

  • 1-3 years

    Votes: 3 4.5%
  • 4 years

    Votes: 4 6.1%
  • 5-9 years

    Votes: 14 21.2%
  • 10-14 years

    Votes: 27 40.9%
  • 15-19 years

    Votes: 8 12.1%
  • 20-24 years

    Votes: 5 7.6%
  • 25-29 years

    Votes: 2 3.0%
  • 30 years plus

    Votes: 3 4.5%

  • Total voters
    66

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MatureDJ

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I prefer the ratio - was once 39 with a 19 year old. And I knew a 54 year old with a 16 year old. :eek: :eek: :eek:
 

itouchyou

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I am 37 nearly 38 and I am pulling in the mid 20s and have gone as low as 19, but that was when I was 33.
Interested in hearing more about your look/style for this. My sister's friends are all 12 years younger than me and every time I hung out with them, all were giving me looks. From when they were 17, and I was 29, even up to now when they're 23 and I'm 35.

I've always been under the impression that for mid 30s to pull much younger you have to be basically at the apex.. which is what I'm shooting for.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fortune_favors_the_bold

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All my girlfriends after my late 20s have always been around 10 yrs younger than me.

Even in my early 20s I was mostly dealing with late teenage girls.

I'm not capable of being attracted from older women or even women my own age.

Right now in my late 30s I would rather bang an average 20yrs old girl than a hottie in her 30s.
 

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Last year I was 44 and was hooking up with a 21 year old regularly for a month. She was crazy in bed but also just plain crazy.

Boy did she not like being let down by a guy my age lol. And she was a solid 8.5
 

soulforge

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I'm 47 years old.

My ex of 9 months was age 24

Kinda depends on how old you look.

I look around 35, so it's not impossible to get a 25 year old.

I banged an 18 year around 1 year ago lol
 

CAPSLOCK BANDIT

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I dated a 45 year old as a 22 year old, she gave me like 10k a month in "walk around money" consistently until I chose to leave after she cheated, did so to maintain respect and I retained her respect to this day, not that it matters since I'm not dating a woman in her late 50s
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SpartanWarrior77

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Married up until I was nearly 50, so all the larger age gaps have been in the years since my divorce
Biggest age gap was an overnighter at my place with a woman of 29 when I was 54. (25yrs)
There were also a few ONS/Weekenders in their mid-late 30s around the same time period.
Biggest gap with a 'regular' was a 42yo when I was 56... lasted about 5/6 months.(14yrs gap)

I'm regularly told I look mid-40s though... so mid 30s to mid 40s isn't that difficult for me.

Voted 10-14 for the regular.
Im 28 and have stomach pangs when I think about my 30s. I feel like I already missed the ball. I know this delusion bc im attempting a perfect life. But tell me, being in ur 50s, is sex enjoyable and fun? Are u confident or do u still suffer from the same level of intensity when it comes to fear and insecurity? Also tell me my old friend, how is ur attitude in general in terms of optimism regarding the future? I already suffer from a cynicism that makes the future look bleak like staring at a rotten piece of cake with maggots with no other food in the fridge. When I was in my early 20s, god the excitement with which id get up in the morning, now all of that seems like a golden era already gone into the abyss of time...
 

SpartanWarrior77

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At 40 my main plate is 20
How did u pull it off? Are u well off? Sometimes i feel like having ur **** together in the west and having the car/clothes/crib combo is attractive in a fantasy type of way for women...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Macadellic

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@SpartanWarrior77

She works at a place I frequent.
She always greeted me kindly and enthusiastically.
I mind myself, doing what I’m there to do and leave.

It took months to have our first conversation because I’m not going out of my way to chase.

Our first conversation happened organically where she told me she hadn’t seen me in weeks and how funny how she was thinking of me and now I’m here

Got her phone number right then and there.
Set up a date and fast forward she is my plate.

This entire time she made an assessment of me.

This is what women do.
They listen to the words that come out of your mouth and they will observe your behavior.

Yes they will look at external factors like what resources you have but if you are not happy with yourself and the life you have built then why would they want to come join you
 

SpartanWarrior77

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@Macadellic yeah man, I like that. It sounds like the perfect seduction. Simple, smooth and slow. Is she just a plate or do u see more of a connection developing? Hows her maturity?
 
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