Westminster
Senior Don Juan
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26 years.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Biggest age difference you have attracted and bedded repeatedly?
- Thread starter 2Rocky
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Giovanni SouthSide
Master Don Juan
thats right. these hxes at the gym are open season.
BackInTheGame78
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23 and still going currently
Interested in hearing more about your look/style for this. My sister's friends are all 12 years younger than me and every time I hung out with them, all were giving me looks. From when they were 17, and I was 29, even up to now when they're 23 and I'm 35.
I've always been under the impression that for mid 30s to pull much younger you have to be basically at the apex.. which is what I'm shooting for.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Fortune_favors_the_bold
Master Don Juan
All my girlfriends after my late 20s have always been around 10 yrs younger than me.
Even in my early 20s I was mostly dealing with late teenage girls.
I'm not capable of being attracted from older women or even women my own age.
Right now in my late 30s I would rather bang an average 20yrs old girl than a hottie in her 30s.
Even in my early 20s I was mostly dealing with late teenage girls.
I'm not capable of being attracted from older women or even women my own age.
Right now in my late 30s I would rather bang an average 20yrs old girl than a hottie in her 30s.
soulforge
Master Don Juan
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Nice work.
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
Master Don Juan
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I dated a 45 year old as a 22 year old, she gave me like 10k a month in "walk around money" consistently until I chose to leave after she cheated, did so to maintain respect and I retained her respect to this day, not that it matters since I'm not dating a woman in her late 50s
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
EndlessNameless
Don Juan
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I pulled an 18 yo when I was 31. I stayed ten years with her.
Doctor Europeo
Moderator
Her prime years. My man!
EndlessNameless
Don Juan
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Yes bro
But it took me two years to recover after she left me.
SpartanWarrior77
Master Don Juan
Im 28 and have stomach pangs when I think about my 30s. I feel like I already missed the ball. I know this delusion bc im attempting a perfect life. But tell me, being in ur 50s, is sex enjoyable and fun? Are u confident or do u still suffer from the same level of intensity when it comes to fear and insecurity? Also tell me my old friend, how is ur attitude in general in terms of optimism regarding the future? I already suffer from a cynicism that makes the future look bleak like staring at a rotten piece of cake with maggots with no other food in the fridge. When I was in my early 20s, god the excitement with which id get up in the morning, now all of that seems like a golden era already gone into the abyss of time...
SpartanWarrior77
Master Don Juan
How did u pull it off? Are u well off? Sometimes i feel like having ur **** together in the west and having the car/clothes/crib combo is attractive in a fantasy type of way for women...
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Macadellic
Senior Don Juan
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@SpartanWarrior77
She works at a place I frequent.
She always greeted me kindly and enthusiastically.
I mind myself, doing what I’m there to do and leave.
It took months to have our first conversation because I’m not going out of my way to chase.
Our first conversation happened organically where she told me she hadn’t seen me in weeks and how funny how she was thinking of me and now I’m here
Got her phone number right then and there.
Set up a date and fast forward she is my plate.
This entire time she made an assessment of me.
This is what women do.
They listen to the words that come out of your mouth and they will observe your behavior.
Yes they will look at external factors like what resources you have but if you are not happy with yourself and the life you have built then why would they want to come join you
She works at a place I frequent.
She always greeted me kindly and enthusiastically.
I mind myself, doing what I’m there to do and leave.
It took months to have our first conversation because I’m not going out of my way to chase.
Our first conversation happened organically where she told me she hadn’t seen me in weeks and how funny how she was thinking of me and now I’m here
Got her phone number right then and there.
Set up a date and fast forward she is my plate.
This entire time she made an assessment of me.
This is what women do.
They listen to the words that come out of your mouth and they will observe your behavior.
Yes they will look at external factors like what resources you have but if you are not happy with yourself and the life you have built then why would they want to come join you
SpartanWarrior77
Master Don Juan
@Macadellic yeah man, I like that. It sounds like the perfect seduction. Simple, smooth and slow. Is she just a plate or do u see more of a connection developing? Hows her maturity?
