You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
PRL..damn bro..good words of wisdom.Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Sorry bro, this girls love her 'dream' more than you - accept it!! Just because a girl lost her virginity to you doesn't mean she lost her life!! At 19 there is much dreaming (and reality) ahead!!
What good advice. Read it again!Originally posted by CLOONEY
Ever heard of the saying, "blinded by love" Translation = she is not perfect you just cant see her faults because of your brain chemistry!
Yep, you are definately in love. Thats why u sound like a wuss and feel like you have known eachother forever!
You are young, enjoy your life. Do NOT KEEP IN CONTACT WITH HER! This will only fukc u up! If in a few years circumstances are different and you are both single, u can see how things work out. But right now, u need to live your life and learn and grow!
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She may and probably will find another guy she falls in love with. Doesnt mean you two dont have a chance in the future. This is just something you have to accept. She will eventually most definately fall out of love with him at some stage and break up with him. People fall in and out of love all the time. If you two had something special, eventually you will get back together, you just gotta let time run its course.Originally posted by rapsta
yeah bro.. this is the way i want it to be: we broke up now.. i wanna do my stuff.. and let her do her stuff.. and we both develop/grow as persons.. and when we're done with our eduations.. in 4-5 years.. we get together again.. but if she finds a boyfriend that she will love, i dunno if it will turn out that way.. huh?