"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Best way to drop plate?

PokerInTheRear

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I need to move on from one plate because I have more than I can handle now (nice problem to have).

She's a nice lady and I could bed her in an instant, but i can tell she likes me more than i ever would her, and honestly, i'm not out to hurt anyone to be selfish.

I read up about the ljbf way, but would appreciate some help with raising the matter to her... I know she'll be upset (not trying to be arrogant here).

Any ideas?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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vatoloco

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Have you considered keeping her in the backburner? You could always see her much less than your other plates, you know, go out with her once in a while. Do you have fun with her? If you, I'd keep her.

Fun girls are always good to have around...
 

PokerInTheRear

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vatoloco said:
Have you considered keeping her in the backburner? You could always see her much less than your other plates, you know, go out with her once in a while. Do you have fun with her? If you, I'd keep her.

Fun girls are always good to have around...
I'd like to do this, but I see her wanting more, and I dont want more from her. I just dont want to bs or lead her on knowing how she feels...
 

vatoloco

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Well, if that's what you want, then I'd stop calling her. In case she calls you up, tell her straight up that you don't dig. Be ready for a verbal tongue-lashing, though. "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned..."

Just be aware that once you drop a plate, it's difficult to get back to the same level of attraction in case you want it back. Let's say that you drop her. Then your other plates don't quite work out and you try to get in touch with her again. Depending on how high her IL is, she may or may not want to be a plate anymore...
 
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