Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Best way to drop plate?

PokerInTheRear

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I need to move on from one plate because I have more than I can handle now (nice problem to have).

She's a nice lady and I could bed her in an instant, but i can tell she likes me more than i ever would her, and honestly, i'm not out to hurt anyone to be selfish.

I read up about the ljbf way, but would appreciate some help with raising the matter to her... I know she'll be upset (not trying to be arrogant here).

Any ideas?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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vatoloco

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Have you considered keeping her in the backburner? You could always see her much less than your other plates, you know, go out with her once in a while. Do you have fun with her? If you, I'd keep her.

Fun girls are always good to have around...
 

PokerInTheRear

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vatoloco said:
Have you considered keeping her in the backburner? You could always see her much less than your other plates, you know, go out with her once in a while. Do you have fun with her? If you, I'd keep her.

Fun girls are always good to have around...
I'd like to do this, but I see her wanting more, and I dont want more from her. I just dont want to bs or lead her on knowing how she feels...
 

vatoloco

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Well, if that's what you want, then I'd stop calling her. In case she calls you up, tell her straight up that you don't dig. Be ready for a verbal tongue-lashing, though. "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned..."

Just be aware that once you drop a plate, it's difficult to get back to the same level of attraction in case you want it back. Let's say that you drop her. Then your other plates don't quite work out and you try to get in touch with her again. Depending on how high her IL is, she may or may not want to be a plate anymore...
 
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