"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Best way to drop plate?

PokerInTheRear

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I need to move on from one plate because I have more than I can handle now (nice problem to have).

She's a nice lady and I could bed her in an instant, but i can tell she likes me more than i ever would her, and honestly, i'm not out to hurt anyone to be selfish.

I read up about the ljbf way, but would appreciate some help with raising the matter to her... I know she'll be upset (not trying to be arrogant here).

Any ideas?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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vatoloco

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Have you considered keeping her in the backburner? You could always see her much less than your other plates, you know, go out with her once in a while. Do you have fun with her? If you, I'd keep her.

Fun girls are always good to have around...
 

PokerInTheRear

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vatoloco said:
Have you considered keeping her in the backburner? You could always see her much less than your other plates, you know, go out with her once in a while. Do you have fun with her? If you, I'd keep her.

Fun girls are always good to have around...
I'd like to do this, but I see her wanting more, and I dont want more from her. I just dont want to bs or lead her on knowing how she feels...
 

vatoloco

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Well, if that's what you want, then I'd stop calling her. In case she calls you up, tell her straight up that you don't dig. Be ready for a verbal tongue-lashing, though. "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned..."

Just be aware that once you drop a plate, it's difficult to get back to the same level of attraction in case you want it back. Let's say that you drop her. Then your other plates don't quite work out and you try to get in touch with her again. Depending on how high her IL is, she may or may not want to be a plate anymore...
 
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