"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PokerInTheRear

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I need to move on from one plate because I have more than I can handle now (nice problem to have).

She's a nice lady and I could bed her in an instant, but i can tell she likes me more than i ever would her, and honestly, i'm not out to hurt anyone to be selfish.

I read up about the ljbf way, but would appreciate some help with raising the matter to her... I know she'll be upset (not trying to be arrogant here).

Any ideas?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Have you considered keeping her in the backburner? You could always see her much less than your other plates, you know, go out with her once in a while. Do you have fun with her? If you, I'd keep her.

Fun girls are always good to have around...
 
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vatoloco said:
Have you considered keeping her in the backburner? You could always see her much less than your other plates, you know, go out with her once in a while. Do you have fun with her? If you, I'd keep her.

Fun girls are always good to have around...
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I'd like to do this, but I see her wanting more, and I dont want more from her. I just dont want to bs or lead her on knowing how she feels...
 
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Well, if that's what you want, then I'd stop calling her. In case she calls you up, tell her straight up that you don't dig. Be ready for a verbal tongue-lashing, though. "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned..."

Just be aware that once you drop a plate, it's difficult to get back to the same level of attraction in case you want it back. Let's say that you drop her. Then your other plates don't quite work out and you try to get in touch with her again. Depending on how high her IL is, she may or may not want to be a plate anymore...
 
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