"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PokerInTheRear

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I need to move on from one plate because I have more than I can handle now (nice problem to have).

She's a nice lady and I could bed her in an instant, but i can tell she likes me more than i ever would her, and honestly, i'm not out to hurt anyone to be selfish.

I read up about the ljbf way, but would appreciate some help with raising the matter to her... I know she'll be upset (not trying to be arrogant here).

Any ideas?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

vatoloco

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Have you considered keeping her in the backburner? You could always see her much less than your other plates, you know, go out with her once in a while. Do you have fun with her? If you, I'd keep her.

Fun girls are always good to have around...
 

PokerInTheRear

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vatoloco said:
Have you considered keeping her in the backburner? You could always see her much less than your other plates, you know, go out with her once in a while. Do you have fun with her? If you, I'd keep her.

Fun girls are always good to have around...
I'd like to do this, but I see her wanting more, and I dont want more from her. I just dont want to bs or lead her on knowing how she feels...
 

vatoloco

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Well, if that's what you want, then I'd stop calling her. In case she calls you up, tell her straight up that you don't dig. Be ready for a verbal tongue-lashing, though. "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned..."

Just be aware that once you drop a plate, it's difficult to get back to the same level of attraction in case you want it back. Let's say that you drop her. Then your other plates don't quite work out and you try to get in touch with her again. Depending on how high her IL is, she may or may not want to be a plate anymore...
 
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