"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Best Outer game method if you already have looks and confidence?

DannyM

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Hi guys,

pretty new to pickup but was wondering as i am good looking guy and have decent inner game but sometimes mess things up due to what i say, what would be thr best outer game for me to learn? Read mystery method but didn't really like it!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Zarky

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think you need to be a little more specific. what is it you say that 'messes things up' and what didn't you 'like' about Mystery's stuff.
 

DannyM

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yes sorry! I mean i do get iois and approached by women but sometimes I mess it up when talking to them! Its just most of the outer game stuff i read is just not congruent with who i am, I mean I would rather be direct than all the misdirection stuff in MM.
 

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DannyM said:
yes sorry! I mean i do get iois and approached by women but sometimes I mess it up when talking to them! Its just most of the outer game stuff i read is just not congruent with who i am, I mean I would rather be direct than all the misdirection stuff in MM.
Im in the same situation bro, I understand where your coming from.

Check out Mode One.

http://www.amazon.com/Mode-One-Women-REALLY-Thinking/dp/1591138973

Also read here.

http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/?img05

You can also buy the Layguide by Tony Click, its basically FastSeduction put into a book.
 

Jeffst1980

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Look up Sinn's stuff. I highly recommend the majority of what he teaches- the basic gist of it being to show INTENT without acting weird. If you're a good looking guy, girls that are "available" will usually be very receptive of you at the onset. All you need to do from there is not screw things up by acting too aloof, boring, or socially awkward.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It depends,

The girls are attracted or not?

If they are attracted right off the bat, Just go direct and qualify them after 30 seconds.
 
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