"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Best Outer game method if you already have looks and confidence?

DannyM

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Hi guys,

pretty new to pickup but was wondering as i am good looking guy and have decent inner game but sometimes mess things up due to what i say, what would be thr best outer game for me to learn? Read mystery method but didn't really like it!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Zarky

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think you need to be a little more specific. what is it you say that 'messes things up' and what didn't you 'like' about Mystery's stuff.
 

DannyM

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yes sorry! I mean i do get iois and approached by women but sometimes I mess it up when talking to them! Its just most of the outer game stuff i read is just not congruent with who i am, I mean I would rather be direct than all the misdirection stuff in MM.
 

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DannyM said:
yes sorry! I mean i do get iois and approached by women but sometimes I mess it up when talking to them! Its just most of the outer game stuff i read is just not congruent with who i am, I mean I would rather be direct than all the misdirection stuff in MM.
Im in the same situation bro, I understand where your coming from.

Check out Mode One.

http://www.amazon.com/Mode-One-Women-REALLY-Thinking/dp/1591138973

Also read here.

http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/?img05

You can also buy the Layguide by Tony Click, its basically FastSeduction put into a book.
 

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Look up Sinn's stuff. I highly recommend the majority of what he teaches- the basic gist of it being to show INTENT without acting weird. If you're a good looking guy, girls that are "available" will usually be very receptive of you at the onset. All you need to do from there is not screw things up by acting too aloof, boring, or socially awkward.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It depends,

The girls are attracted or not?

If they are attracted right off the bat, Just go direct and qualify them after 30 seconds.
 
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